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Here are three secret ingredients that can encourage your avoidant partner to open up, be themselves, and empower your relationship.
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If you accept them, show empathy and support them. They will eventually develop feelings and then pull away because of those feelings... Their feelings scare them.... You can do your part, but they also need to do theirs
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Very healthy approach. Unfortunately, it's not gonna work if the avoidant person is not ready the person is lost deeply wounded and runs towards toxic quick dopamine solutions rather than appreciating those great values a healthy person is offering...
Thank you Thais đ I'm learning a lot and made tremendous progress regarding understanding others and gained deeper self-awareness ⤠with love from Polan
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Can we get to the part where after years of supporting their wound that the rebound effect of compassion fatigue hits you like a brick wall?
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I was very supportive and empathetic towards my dismissive avoidant ex but unfortunately she was very judgemental over small stuff, didn't show me much empathy and picked apart any tiny flaws and imperfections in order to justify to herself why the relationship wouldn't work long term. Absolutely brutal experience.
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Being in a relationship is the least of an Avoidantâs worries. What they really need to be doing is focus on getting help / working on themselves. Itâs not their partnerâs responsibility to âfixâ them. People who want to get into a relationship with an Avoidant , should not get into a relationship with them to begin with or leave once they identify they have these traits/disorders.
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Did all of these. Still got lashed out at and pushed away any time he was triggered. And when I pointed out the unfairness of how I treated him versus how he treated me he told me he wasn't good enough or strong enough to be with me and then blocked me.
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As an avoidant, I agree with this. Acceptance being number one for me.
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Then they scare themselves for moving into a deeper relationship. You get immediately ghosted. Haha
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Glad to know I'm on the right track! Working through my own Anxious Attachment, this let's me know I'm doing the right things to support my love
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Didnât work - they discarded anyway. Figured it was not love on their part. Just validation and dopamine they were seeking when they came back the second time around, will be the last time anyway as theyâve already monkey branched and crumbing me to string me along now. Never ever take them back they are unwilling to do the work and never acknowledge the hurt they put through the first time in a genuine way.
They need to take therapy seriously and work on themselves instead of just serving platitudes as if they were changed people. I am seeking therapy myself to heal. It will take me months if not years to get over the second discard.
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Itâs exhausting being with an avoidant partner. If someone isnât taking actionable and measurable steps towards healing itâs absolutely pointless.
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The framing of this video is difficult, it's telling the audience how to recognize, think and mold themselves so another person feels loved and accepted while the other is operating out of wounds they (clearly) aren't addressing because they are still active, causing a toxic environment. I think it's more like, if you see these characteristics, you need to decide if you are willing to pour love into a container with holes in it with potentially zero return, which can be incredibly damaging for the person attempting to do so
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After 5 years of giving all 3, he still pushes me away. My love for him is so pure and true. I have shown him unconditional love, loyalty, support, forgiveness, patience, and it means nothing to him. I feel defeated đ
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I donât know what it is Thais, Iâm not sure whatâs changed recently but Iâm gonna have to say it, this is the sexiest and hottest youâve looked since I watched your channel from July last year.
Thank you for helping me with my DA breakup 10 months ago ! It was THE most baffling, brain draining experience Iâve ever had In any relationship ever!
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You can do all these things...and they'll leave you anyway because they still get triggered by some random comment and won't bring it up to resolve.
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Maybe they could reciprocate some of that occasionally. But why, someone else will surely do it
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Did all 4 of them. Didnât work.
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Wait, I thought that it was being nice to avoidants that runs them the other way because they're afraid of emotions. You being nice to them is exactly what brings out their fears.
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Thais your eyes are so beautifulđ
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@mattgr4370
1 month ago
Unfortunately, as it is the case with many of the things you are supposed to do when navigating communication with avoidant â almost none of it is reciprocal. And meanwhile the ice might (really) slowly melt for them, for you the coldness and unreliability of the person becomes exhausting and makes the idea of this person being your partner much less exciting đ
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