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My husband and I had a very intentional dating life. Within the first few months (at 23) we discussed children, lifestyle, religion, financial goals, etc. I made it clear I wanted to be a homemaker and SAHM and he made it clear that that’s what we wanted from a partner. Dating should be a time to talk about the big stuff and consider what a life together would look like! And if you have very different wants/needs/ideas, there’s no shame in saying that you probably aren’t a good fit :) save everybody some time and heartbreak! Don’t date just to date! ❤️
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Those people aren’t foolish for making backup plans, they just aren’t naive. I’ve heard about plenty of relationships that start off wonderfully and then derail long after marriage. There is no such thing as a perfect wife or husband. I used to think the same thing - because I have standards and I don’t date without the intention of marriage I don’t need to worry about abuse or cheating. And…it didn’t work. Life is not a constant and people do change
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You can marry a man with the greatest integrity, kindness, work ethic, honor and stuff can STILL go wrong. I’ve seen this in my own life. Sometimes uncontrollable things happen outside of our control. We have to prepare for those times and by saying that, we need to also realize that people aren’t attacking men when they say that.
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But there is always something that can happen.. a car crash.. an illness to name a few examples. You can lose a loved one in more ways. Back up plans are not a bad thing.
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I admire your wisdom. Your husband is a very fortunate man, and I believe God has rewarded both of you, with each other, and has indeed blessed your union.
Go with God.
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You can do both and still have a backup plan. "Stressing things out" when you're dating will not fully protect you from the dangers of the future. Depending fully on another person for your wellbeing will set you up for a ton of risk if anything changes...
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You are fantastic. You and your husband. The world needs more of both of you. You make me feel like there is hope for this world.
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I love this!
The key is to respect yourself, and everyone else will respect you. That was the best advice I received when I started dating. And it has served me well.
Blessings!
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I’ve been married for almost twenty years. While I commend your desire to show traditional marriage in a positive light, (and I was a traditional wife for 14 years; I now work part-time as a drafter) I have found that there is no “wrong” way to be in a partnership with someone you love as long as each person brings their gifts, talents, and best selves into the relationship. Each couple is going to have different goals, intentions, desires, and as long as everyone is feeling fulfilled and living to their highest potential, “traditional” and “non traditional” are just labels. I am happy you have found a man who will allow you to shine and beautify your home and your life together.
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One suggestion:- involve you parents especially father/big brother/uncle any strong male figure who you can trust, they will be able to filter out incompetent unworthy men...also there is going to be checks and balances with their involvement.
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Backup plans isn't just about divorce or cheating. It's about what happens if he DIES. Or can't work anymore. Or even just lose his job and the industry he is in become obsolete. My friend who was the sole income for his family died at 32. Things like that happens.
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For me, it was 100% my insecurities that cause me to 'plan for the worst'. We've been married for almost 21 years now. Have the difficult talks when they first comes up.
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God bless your parents for who they raised and thr voice you have. Salute you 👏
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People can change. And its unfair to put all your expenses on someone else for life. It puts you in a vulnerable position. It makes the world unsafe for women and children if women dont go out and are present in every work space.
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You are 100% right and agreed on every word! Lets all just dont forget that people change/evolve/degrade with years and may be unrecognizable after 10 years, so being careful at the start may still not save anyone from a failed relationship/marriage in every case. This mindset of taking who you date seriously tho is needed to be teached in schools as a part of social/communication subjects or something. Not sure if thats understandable and if there is such subject in US or other parts of the world, but hopefully I explained this more or less understandable. P.S. Absolutelly adore you! <3
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The problem these days is a lot of people don’t take the time and “date” they get together and in a very short time they begin living together and playing house.
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I love the fact you’re doing this and bringing it back to the core values that honestly should be thought about, honored and brought into any relationship/marriage. So excited and proud of ladies like you. Decriminalizing women embodying their femininity and men embodying their masculinity. It’s a beautiful thing. Keep up the wonderful work and again, thank you for being you!
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2 languages were spoken in this video, English and truth. Definitely want a video on strategic dating.
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I commend you young lady. It’s a very rare thing to see someone such as yourself in this day and age! I’m a 49 year old married Mum of 7 and although I have a phd and doctorate, I chose to be a traditional wife and mother. I believe that taking care of my husband and children was just as noble of an endeavor and actually extremely rewarding! Keep on being who you are, continue being happy and never let anyone put you down!
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@DavetheLeg
1 year ago
Zero tolerance is always the best policy when it comes to cheating.
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