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Sometimes you don't feel like going, but have a great time when you get there.
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People who are depressed think they are a burden to everyone. Sometimes forcing yourself to go out and participate can help.
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Sorry Mark, I have reservations about this one. Firstly, you can go to the psrty with an open mind and hey, you might enjoy it🎉. You dont have to be a buzzkill. Sometimes, the right thing to do is to go, even if it isn't your thing, support your partner/family/friends/work colleagues. Otherwise, there would be no-one at funerals (except a few weirdos).
There's a fine line between being 'yourself and being selfish. Right now, so many people seem to be so self-obsessed they've forgotten the rest of the world.
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I find that my brain tells me beforehand that i wont enjoy something but if i do go i usually do enjoy it. My problem is anxiety.
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The thing is, it’s not always about US, we would be so entitled and full of ourselves if we thought only of our own wants and needs. Imagine being on the other end of things, walk on the other persons moccasins and decide if it’s possible to be agreeable when it’s in best interest of all involved.
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Spot on if you don’t have the right energy don’t go , but if you have a positive mindset but are just anxious you should push through. But don’t force it if your in a bad space mentally overall, then it may be more mature to just avoid it completely
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That’s my philosophy.. and now all my work group hates my guts 🤣🤣
The good thing is that I feel that I don’t give the slightest fúck
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I do that all the time already. I don’t have time for things I don’t enjoy
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I’ve started telling people, I can’t make this but I CAN go to that. I’m also very clear about the fact that most times I just appreciate an invitation. Once in awhile, I’ll go with an open mind but I seldom enjoy myself when I do that. It’s definitely a mixed bag tbh.
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everyone should really learn this haha that person is always the worst and you shouldn’t be that person, great video
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Absolutely, do only what makes you happy, regardless of what people say or think, be yourself period.
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If I follow this advice I would be going to no social events at all
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i feel what you’re saying 100% but i do think our time has value to other people whether we’re in the mood to give it or not. however, if i’d rather stay home but decide to go anyway, i make it a point to try to enjoy it or at least come with a positive attitude. but yes there are times when it is absolutely okay to just not go because our time is also very valuable to us.
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Sometimes you just have to get over yourself and realise than some things are more important than your mood.
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This is potentially the worst advice you can give someone. Sure you will go to some parties and not enjoy it, but the point is that over time, sometimes with effort, you learn more and more how to enjoy it. The worst thing you can do is turn down parties cause you’re afraid you won’t enjoy them, which ends up in spiralling down with you not improving your social skills, and hence ending up not enjoying any of the parties, which will ultimately make you unhappy with life. Took me a year of therapy to understand and fix that in my life
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Counter argument being alot of the time you don't wanna go out end up being the best
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just need to turn up and smile 2 times out of 3
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That’s why I let my wife go to swingers parties on her own
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I don't have any friends and I don't have a job. Problem solved.
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@9usuck0
5 months ago
I say no when I don't want to go and now they don't invite me to the things I'd say yes to now.
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