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Nah, she let it slide for months. Maybe address the situation with the girl face to face to tell her what she did hurt her feelings but to say it through her daughter is completely petty and out of line.
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She should've addressed it right then and there. Waiting months to bring it up is ridiculous.
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She should have already apologized! No, until she can apologize, she wouldn't be welcome back in MY home (if it were me)
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I DEMAND A APOLOGIZE THE SAME DAY OTHERWISE THE NIGHT WILL GET UGLYđđđ
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No,your not wrong I would want an apology
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No, not wrong in the slightest bit. The girl should apologize for her actions and say â Iâm sorry but I was only joking about it and I am sorry that I offended youâ
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Yes, youâre wrong. I bet that little girl is mortified that she said that And does not want to bring it up.
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Idk if I'm reading into this wrong but I feel like her daughter is the one who thinks her friend shouldn't apologize. Like with the little context there was it seemed like she didn't even bring it up to her friend. I'm sure if she asked and explained her friend might apologize.
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I was being told to apologize at age 5 this 14 YEAR OLD should know to take 5 seconds to say sorry it's not that hard, and I am agreeing with the mom too because I would want my daughter hanging out with someone who doesn't know how to apologize.
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At 14, when your body is going through changes and youâve probably developed your own insecurities about it, you know better than to comment on someone elseâs body like that. She shouldâve apologized before she left. Doesnât matter if it was awkward or whatever, this was the first time she went to her friendâs house, and she disrespected her friendâs mom! No person should have to feel disrespected in their own home
Maybe what OP should tell her husband if he still says she should forget about it is, âokay Iâll let it go. Iâm sure itâs a great lesson to teach our daughter that if sheâs certain the other person feels bad about insulting her, she should let it go like youâre telling me to do.â
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Nah, not wrong, your hubby needs correction too.
You don't joke about something someone can't change with in 15 seconds.
You don't make someone the butt of your joke, ESPECIALLY when you're in their home and eating their food.
Your daughter needs to be taught that too.
Have the friend over and sit all 3 down with that conversation.
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Honestly I'm 30 and I have a few former friends that could've benefitted from being told to apologize instead of move on. It's humbling and healthy to hold oneself accountable.
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Ok it seems like op isnât dramatizing this like people in other parts said. Op just wants an apologize for something and see that this friend is good for her daughter.
The friend being 14 years old regardless of whether she knew before she said it or not, is old enough to know that she should apologize if something she said clearly hurt somebody. Sure given the awkward situation when it first happened itâs understandable why she might have been too embarrassed to apologize in the moment.
I can also see the dadâs side, he doesnât want this situation to get worse and the daughter to lose a friend she obviously cares about. I couldnât tell if Op was just explaining to us how she felt after the part where she talked with her husband, or if she actually explained this to him as well. Nor does it say anything about how the husband reacted to the Opâs reasoning for wanting the apology now if she did explain it to him. So I canât say if the husband canât see the real issue here or is willfully ignoring how Op feels about this.
One thing for sure and can understand if people disagree with on this point, but the daughter is definitely in the wrong although not to the extent that Iâd say she would be a a-hole. The daughter asked for something from Op (her mom), and didnât get a no but also didnât get the answers she wanted. Op didnât even ask for much so the daughter and the friend can get what they wanted either, just a simple apology from the friend for what she said the last time she was over. For whatever reason the daughter didnât like that runs to dad and asks him the same thing, gets what she wants and then basically tattles to him about what Op said. At her age she knew what she was doing and purposefully started that argument between her parents. Whether she consciously started the argument in hopes of getting Op to back off or simply forget about wanting the apology, or subconsciously because she just wanted to see Op in trouble. I 100% believe she did that on purpose, to be clear Iâm not saying that the daughter is some evil mastermind or anything. Iâm just saying kids have a way of doing some really stupid f*cked up things when theyâre upset without knowing. Sometimes we donât even realize just how f*cked up the things we did as kids are until years later, either when we suddenly remember something on our own, or someone else brings it up and points out how f*cked it is, both ways ends up with reality hitting us like a ton of bricks.
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Tell him heâs under reacting becuz he wasnât the one who felt it and he will never know whatâs itâs like
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Oh hell no!!!! She should apologize. All that indicates to me is that she is capable of worse behavior than that and she is very comfortable being rude. She wouldn't darken my doorstep again, is this normal for y'all, people come to your house disrespect you and its a joke?
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As a parent myself i dont agree with op here. Wanting an apology the same night i understand but from listening to the story you could tell she didnt mean the joke with any ill intent and felt awkward when she noticed you took offense. To me that tells me in her home jokes like that can be a normal thing and thinks being quiet is enough to show that she didnt mean it in that way, or the joke came out as a way to lighten the mood but her silence was a recyion out of fear of being kicked out or embarrassment over the situation. Shes 14. It happens, they mess up and you are not their parent and dont know their life. Wanting an apology the same night i can understand but refusing to let her come over unless she apologises weeks after it happened is just petty and childish. Shes got her own life and has probably long forgotten about it. Your being insecure over a 14 year olds comment despite the fact it may ruin your daughters friendship.
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The mom is in the right, the child should apologize no matter what the intention was, i know theres a german artist who had the intention of creating a better world for some ppl but we dont say "it just didnt land"
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As someone who was born with their feet in their mouth, I can say the friend is probably as awkward as the daughter is and didn't mean anything malicious by it. It's likely more awkward to dig it up and hash it out than it would be to let sleeping dogs lie. Still, awkward as it is, she should probably apologise if she hurt the moms feelings
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The cap got messed up. Hope if that was a gift or purchased they redid it.
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@eatwhatukiii2532
5 months ago
14 is old enough to KNOW sheâs hurt a friendâs feelings and SHOULD apologize.
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