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AITAH for getting an abortion because my fiance cheated on me?
I don't know how to start this. My fiance told me that he cheated on me for over a year now, and we've been together for 7 years total.
He says he doesn't want to be together anymore, which broke my heart, and still did since we were highschool sweethearts. His girlfriend was with him when he told me this, which made me even more upset since he didn't have the decency to tell me one on one. He let his girlfriend into our home, the one we bought together
Anyway, I wanted to tell him that I was pregnant on his birthday. Since his birthday is really close. He always wanted a family, a big family with at least 5 kids. I didn't want kids that much, but I didn't mind them either.
The moment he told me we were over, I knew I didn't want that baby. I didn't want to co parent or be a single mom, any of that. I have a good paying job, and that might make me selfish for not wanting the baby, but I don't care.
I told him I was pregnant when he told me it was over. And he looked a little upset, like he regretted it or something. He told me was fine with split custody, and I didn't say anything.
A few days later I got an abortion, I thought it was necessary to tell him and not lead him on, since I didn't want to see or talk to him ever again.
He called me when I sent the text, saying "why the fuck would you do that??" And so on. He said I knew damn well he wanted kids, and I should've told him before even thinking about it.
I feel selfish for doing what I did. But I feel like giving birth and overall having that kid would make me unhappy. I barely like kids and the thought of having one with the man who broke my heart is not helping.
I know this might be a stupid thing to post, but I feel like a jerk. He's the only one to know about the abortion but not the pregnancy.
— Hi everyone, it's around 6 hours later. And feel free to comment and respond to my comments and other replies. But I won't be updating or replying for a while.
I just need to tell someone who is someone I know. But thank you to each and everyone of you sweethearts giving me advice and more.
I know that responding to the anti abortion and "your a killer" comments are not helpful to me right now.
I will be back, and I will respond,and I will give you guys who are interested, an update soon enough.
I just need to take a break and not reply to the people trying to make me feel shame, remorse, guilt and all the above for my abortion.
I feel like shit right now, so if anyone's able to message me on the next few hours, with some recourses or anything, I'd greatly appreciate it.
I will update you guys as soon as I can, and again, feel free to leave comments.
And also, I absolutely did not get an abortion out of spite, revenge or to punish him for what he did. I didn't think about the abortion the moment he sat me down.
I don't blame the baby, even if anti abortion's disagree with that.
And I guess I do want some validation from at least strangers. Because I feel like I can talk to anyone. I feel horrible. So if I overacted at your comment, and whatnot, your right I guess.
I know this is a stupid post, but I thought I needed to consider his feelings and not just my own. Thanks, again
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NTA!! It’s her choice and based off of how the story’s being told, it doesn’t seem like she was far along enough for the “baby” to be anything more or at any other stage than a fetus. I personally wouldn’t want to have a baby with somebody who cheated on me after being with them for 7 years and have to go through custody battles and co-parenting. I also wouldn’t want my kid to grow up in a broken family. Don’t try to push your beliefs and opinions on other people. HER body, HER choice!!
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sounds like everyone thinks she got an abortion to just spite her ex. to me it sounded like she didn’t want to put in the time, energy, and money to raise a new life coparenting with a cheater.
going through pregnancy alone and having a constant reminder of a relationship that will surely haunt her for ages sounds MISERABLE. being cheated on is a pretty big deal especially for a 7 year relationship.
she’s grieving that person she thought she knew, grieving the life and future she thought they had together. her whole world flipped upside down. i don’t think her decision is wrong, and i do think people aren’t being as sympathetic they can be.
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Sorry off topic but.... how did this work for you? Were there much less bubbles after curing? Thanks 😊
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He does not want that baby, neither u. He does not deserve any consiredation of u. Do what is best for u ❤😢
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NTA- She did what she felt was best in an ugly situation and doesn't need guilt tripping from others. It's absolutely not what I would do.... But I support OP's chioce 💯
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Girl, you do you. You're tough you'll get over this douche bag.❤
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She's tying herself to a serial cheater for the rest of her life if she has the baby.
What a thought.
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NTA
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You should have just gave it up for adoption so the baby can have a good life and you to!
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I read the whole story and OP told her ex that she was pregnant and then aborted the baby as soon as she could afterwards…. Knowing that he really wanted a family OP purposely told him and then did what she did to hurt him, because otherwise she wouldn’t have told him about the baby she never wanted. She isn’t the AHole for the abortion, she’s the a hole for getting his hopes up for a child she never planned to have.
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No, you did what was best for you 👌 simple
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Yes, yata because instead of giving the baby up for adoption. You chose to have an abortion. You deserve to be sent to prison for taking a life!
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What is that have to do anything about the baby?
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Ok your not wrong but you didn't have to disown the baby don't let yo rage out on the kids or baby all you had to do is give away the baby no you killed the baby by taking its life
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Depends how far along you were tbh. Like 6 months? Wtf. Only 3? Valid. If he wants to be a father have one with his new gf.
I'll say morally grey nta.
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Part two?
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I wouldn't have aborted I would of went for immediately being adopted out at birth❕❗ That's the only thing I would of changed in this situation❕❗
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The fault is on the man not the child, you said yourself you are able to care for the child on your own and yet you still chose to murder it. I hope that you will come to see the reality of the harm coused by your actions because your child deserved the chance to live.
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@That_Plague_Doctor
3 months ago
You’re not the AH at all. If you don’t want to have a child with the man that cheated on you for that long I don’t blame you at all. Plus it’s her choice not his. Another thing, if he wants a big family he can have it with his new partner!
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