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Hey, scenepunk here, I was born female, and I hate the majority of dresses. What do I do then, when going to a formal event? Wear a suit. If I really don't want to wear a suit? I won't come and will send one hell of an apology letter to the bride and groom. NTA, the daughter is lucky, my mom would've forced me into a dress, but she's getting the most choice she can while still being polite.
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NTA. Mom is right, there will be places that will require proper dress attire, and her daughter needs to understand that.
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Good on mom! You gotta teach your children to respect others and if youre gonna show up for family then you gotta be respectful too!
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Been there. My teen claimed I was 'violating her bodily autonomy' if I told her to put on something besides booty shorts when we were out in public. 😂
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She could put on a suit and personalise it with original buttons or fabric stickers. That would give her a formal look and she could make a fashion statement at the same time.
I like all the clear resine art you do, it lift my mood 💙💜
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Yea its disrespectful to show up to a wedding in a t shirt and slacks
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Damn op is giving her the chance to pick out what she wants as well as get it hand tailored? Nta, my mom would literally buy dresses for us and made us pay her back for them even if they were the wrong size. I just think thy need to sit down and have a discussion on why the child is fighting back so hard when op if giving her a better option.
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if she doesnt like button ups, im sure theres some other formal top she could pair with a pair of nice slacks. i also dont love feminine clothing, but suits also feel really constrictive for me so thats the sort of thing id look for. i think theres a way for both parties to be happy here :) try approaching the topic from a different angle and see if you cant find something similar but formal to what she planned on wearing!
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Let her stay home and express herself. Plain and simple. She’s being the A-H.
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If she’s not willing to compromise with the mom she can’t go. She knows it’s a black tie event which means you have to wear dress up clothing. There are no excuses why you can’t do that unless you a valid reason to do so
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This is beautiful!!
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She’s giving her the freedom to choose but is like I don’t want the options given to me cause I’m rebelling like she needs to get a grip, her mom could force her to wear stuff she hates and ruin the relationship but she’s offering her a choice of wear formal, doesn’t matter if it’s fem presenting masc presenting or neutral but dress formal like she’s why people can’t have nice things lol
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Not the ah. I'm a ftm, and as a kid I didn't want to wear girly clothes, I also just wanted to be like my big brother lol, and my mom was accepting but not as much as this mom, and my extended family is even worse. I literally have a beard and I still get girly clothes, subtle girly, but still. This mom is awesome for willing to get her a CUSTOM suit. I'd have and would still kill for that kind of offer!
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I like the clear colors and sparkles.
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I love this stuff you make
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She’s gonna need to learn how to express herself in a formal setting. Not wanting to put the effort into cleaning up for an event is not a form of expression, it’s just plain laziness.
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That’s fair like it’s a wedding I don’t think the bride would appreciate her coming in a t shirt the mom is trying her best by making a suit for her ❤
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Though I see both sides, but as i teenager myself, I side with the girl mostly. Slacks to wedding, honestly isn't that bad and maybe replacing the T-shirt with a button up or dress shirt would be a good compromise. But adults and people in general needa to understand some people reakly arent comfortable with wearing fromal clothes for more reasons than being stubborn. Whether its because of body issues, sexual orientation, self-anxiety or just generally not feeling comfortable. Even though dressing for the occasion is needed skill, she's not a adult yet. One thing I do know for sure forcing her wont do anything, neither will telling her its a necessary skill. She will eventually learn to find somesort of formal wear that she will be okay with or maybe she won't, maybe she will just wear something that works. Trust me, my grandmother forced me to talk to people in public places even though i had severe anxiety, I just grew to resent her and cried alot.
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NTA. I get her wanting to be comfortable and express her own style, but OP even compromised by allowing her to wear something out of the range of what was the cultural standards anyways.
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@AllieRancatore
4 months ago
Ntah. That mom is willing to compromise and the daughter should be too. Part of life is having to dress a certain way for certain things
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