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Good partners are always your friend, but good friends won't always be a good partner to you. I have had a lot of close male friends over my life, and most of those relationships were 100% platonic. My fiance was a good friend of mine for several years, and I did not think of him romantically at the time because I was already in a relationship. It wasn't until after I was single for a while that I started to see him differently. I understand that some people would say that he was biding his time until I was single, but it wasn't like that. Frame of mind matters, and feelings develop when you feed them. We are clearly very compatible (I am marrying him, after all), but part of that compatibility was rooted in an honest friendship.
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because sometimes they pass all of the above but you never really fall to them like romantically. ive told this to my previous partner when i was 15 that i talk about him cause he is an amazing guy and that he should meet him. and he took that as an attack on him and his personality, then cheated on me, because i was cheating with my friend anyway. i told him no i wasnt.
then i actually got curious if i am romantically attracted to the guy, but i wasnt like at all. then he got romantically and sexually attracted to me after being friends of 2 yrs. everyone of our friends literally say "but you have a crush on him" and i tell them without a beat "no i really dont, as a concept of platonic relationship yes, i like him and prefer him than my other friends, but romantically and sexually? no"
then i stopped talking to him, cause when my romantic partner at the time was clearly cheating, he didnt tell me and left me to find out about it, even though he was my friend for almost 3 yrs.
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Friends can turn into lovers, lovers can turn into friends. It doesn't prove that genuine friendship that stays friendship between men and women or anyone in between is impossible. Like she said, it's all about personality and the individual.
And anyways, they become like your siblings. You don't marry or fall in love with your siblings who you've only seen as your siblings.
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Yes, honeymoon phase is real and sexual/physical attraction is never enough to maintain a good relationship…but that definitely doesn’t mean that relationships are over once that initial honeymoon phase calms down…unless it’s only superficial relationships..I also think that yes it’s possible to be friends with someone and never date or even think about that kind of relationship even if you were physically attracted to someone, depending. You wouldn’t date someone if you were looking for two different things at that time and wasn’t going to work or if you feel that your personality wasn’t compatible even if you think that person is attractive…
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I don’t even find my best friend attractive so yeah no 😂 he’s like my brother or something like that. We’ve been alone numerous times and a thought like that never even crossed my mind. He’s had like numerous girlfriends and none of them ever even saw me that way with him, so it really depends on the persons thought process maybe.
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Now of course you can develop sexual attraction and further sexual chemistry with your best friend, but however sex is one of the most indicators of a good marriage. So although people are saying looks/attraction can fade and might not be the focal point or important in the relationship, it starts getting bad if one or both parties sexual desires are not being met
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Me and my best friend have always had a pact to get married when we’re 30 if we’re not married..
he’s 29 this month lol.
I think it’s because I’ve always been in love with him, I guess he is in love with me too because he mentioned it recently 😆 shit these comments no one thinks this is a good idea hey lmao
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@upthedown1
10 months ago
Don't date your best friend unless you are madly in love and it's reciprocated. Not worth losing a good friend.
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