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Genre: Howto & Style
Date of upload: Jun 21, 2024 ^^
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Ok so I have body image issues and, when it’s brought up, people will tell me that I’m sooo pretty. I asked my brother once about it. He told me I’m average. Well, average is a lot better than I thought and I know he’s not lying because he’s my brother. Other people will lie to your face. It made me feel better. Saying she’s average isn’t always wrong it’s just about context
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Growing up other kids were always brutal to me and I got called ugly and fat a lot. While my mom tried to tell me I was beautiful, I didn't believe her. I was going through a lot at the time and my mental health spilled over into my appearance.
Long story short, I'm generally healthy as a person now, and I couldn't be more grateful for how people treated me. My worth isn't based on how people perceive me or treat me. That's their problem and not mine. The credit goes to Jesus for my current disposition. However, I appreciate the adversity I've faced in life because it's given me true confidence that validation from others will never come close to.
I think "niceness" and vanity are related. I've known people to be nice in someone's face and then cruel right after they leave. I know people who can be brash but very kind and genuine.
I think a bigger issue is how much we internalize others' words and let them cut us down. Again, I couldn't do it without Jesus, so I'm not saying it's easy to not internalize stuff.
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@GalacticPossum
1 week ago
At about 12 struggling with my self confidence, for the first time, I asked my mom if I was pretty. Her answer was, "Well, beauty is different to everyone." It was also the last time I asked her, or anyone. I still don't ever feel pretty.
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