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nta !! making sure you child is comfortable and happy is super important! if your wife cant see that and only cares about how happy the childs hair makes her instead of how her kid feels there are some major issues going on. also, its not like the wife can control what the father does to raise his own kid😭😭
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Op is TA. An 8 year old deciding to cut all her hair off. My daughter wanted loc when she was around 8. Reason she didn’t want to do her hair. I almost conceded then thought of the future and some of the styles she may miss out on in her teens. As a teen she thanked me for not locing her hair. She enjoys doing her own hair now. Majority of the time mothers know best… I remember cutting my hair really short and people do treat you differently… either way hopefully the father learns how to do hair. Very positive the mother will leave the hair duties to the dad now.
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Yes. I know the girl wants it. But since mom is on charge or taking care of her hair, this is definitely something the two of them should've talked about and come to an agreement on, with the little girl. Not saying mom is right. She's not. But the three of them should definitely talk about whats best for "Hannah".
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NTA every decision in y'all's lives shouldn't just be up to the Mom to make the final decision especially when she's neglecting her child's emotional and mental well-being "Hanna" doesn't like all that hair nor does she want to spend all of her time being a dress up doll when she's a person who has their own likes and dislikes which the Dad decided to be present and respectful of and helped his daughter with her issue that had a simple solution the Mom didn't want to acknowledge because of her own selfish desire that effects other people. It either could've been the parents both ignoring her for the Mom's pride of control and being able to play beauty salon on her daughter however she wanted, and the daughter cutting her hair off herself resulting in an even worse family dynamic and a trip to the salon either way. Or the parents listen to their child who is supposed to be loved, cared for and nurtured and who can articulate what they need and communicate it and get that need met together in some way shape or form that doesn't involve an ugly debate on whose opinion matters more pertaining to one person's body constitution doesn't matter the age with this type of decision if y'all can have a conversation, then the person who has to live in that body is the one who's opinion matters the most for the final decision.
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if kids are uncomfortable with thier hair and you tell them no to a haircut they absolutely WILL CUT THIER OWN HAIR and itll look really bad amd need to be cut really short to fix it. my step daughters mom rarely seen her kids but didnt want her hair being cut even though she was 4 years old and was dying her hair RED. my fiance got so upset cuz she was knly 4 and she was putting so many chemicals in her hair and shed always put hairspray in it to where her hair was hard she would straighten her hair without heat protection we had to use oops to get it out and her mom dyed her hair again and told my fiance she got into herself she got into it and got a streak of her hair so she said she had to dye the rest of her daughters hair and she didnt say anything because thier daughter dropped her phone in the toilet she was 5 at that time very mature for a 5 year old and she told us she didnt drop the phone in the toilet her mom got mad and threw her phone and broke it and her mom told her to come in the bathroom and dyed her hair cuz she had leftkver dye so we used oops again and her hair was so fried her hair so i took her to get her hair cut with her dads permission she never had a haircut before i told her princesses get thier cut to look like a pretty princess with pretty hair her dad dropped us off but they was closed she cried saying she wanted to look like a princess so we went back the next day got it cut she loved it. but since shes got some black in her her hair was kinda curly amd the cut made all of her curls go away and they never came back. i held onto some of her hair since it was her first cut and told brian to give her mom some and she flipped out on us then got mad that we got her her first haircut (she refuses to spend a penny on her kids) and after she was done bitching he told her he had some of her hair for her to keep and that if she didnt fry her hair we wouldnt have had to get her hair cut. her mom told us not to touch her hair again so when she was begging for a haor cut cuz it bothered her we told her her mom didnt want her hair cut so when she was supposed to be sleeping she said she was going to the bathroom she was in there for awhile we asked if she was ok she said ya the next day she came out with short messed up hair and said she cut her hair because she wanted some coffee we took her to my dads so brothers gf could fix it since she works at a hair salon. after that if she asked for her hair cut and we didnt get to it within a couple of days shed cut her hair herself saying it was bothering her. if hair makes a kid uncomfortable its easier to let them get thier hair cut or else theyll do it themselves and it wont be goodm
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Yes, you are the AH. You snuck out behind your wife's back like a teenager and went against her. By doing that you are telling her that you don't value or trust her enough to sit down and have a conversation with her about the issue and that you are not a united front for your daughter. Not a good sign for a long-term healthy relationship.
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@aria7048
5 months ago
NTA, that mother is going a bit too much over her daughter's hair, her father also has a say in her life not just the wife and the fact that the daughter wants her hair cut so badly and the mother is ignoring her rlly says a lot on how she cares for her daughter's feelings. I do gotta say tho that maybe you shouldn't have let her cut her hair THAT short for her first time but then again im not her parents. so NTA but i kinda wish he did let the wife know cause thats how you break trust in a relationship. He couldve let her know and still cut her daughter's hair, just my opinion
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