Stop listening to terrible advice such as ...

Play Hard to Get ❌
This gives off avoidant vibes and is misleading. It doesn’t build real connection, because it’s not real.

Always be Available 🥺
Yes it’s good to prioritize dating and if you’re not you need to, however.. that does not mean give up your life and always be available. It’s a turn off and comes across as desperate.

Proactively Look for Red Flags 🚩
“Is that a red flag?” is what singles ask all the time! A flaw is NOT a red flag. It’s your fear of getting hurt that puts you on the hunt to look for red flags. The problem is that if you go in looking for problems or flaws you will find them. Most are not RED flags. The fear colors the picture and sabotages relationships when they don’t need to.

Just Go Out... You Never Know 🚫
Yes... you know. Don’t go out with just anyone or it will lead to depression and burnout. Have some criteria and a filter as well as a mentor and then stand strong in your ‘no thanks’.

This is Why You’re Not Married 💔
Anyone who tells you why you’re not married is full of arrogance and pride. Run. Only God knows. Your job is to keep growing and God will bring him at the right time.

Rather than listen to these toxic pieces of advice, get to know yourself, what you are looking for and build your self worth. Then you will trust yourself and only those you choose to listen to.

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