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One of the most frustrating things about ADHD is that you have to bear that all alone, locked up in a room two nights before your exam not being able to know what you did wrong to get to this point while your best friend is calling you constantly why aren't you studying???
You can't tell her bcz she won't get it she loves you but she won't get it.
And you have to bear that all alone bcz people don't know the difference between laziness and ADHD.
It's better to suffer alone than to be judged by your fav people...
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this helped me realise that this is why me & my boss clash so much. he's a businessman, a salesman, a getting things done in a certain way type of boss. he wants results that he isn't getting & assuming it's my fault. whereas i do my job bc i want to, it's interesting, i have a certain amount of autonomy. I'm also autistic, & i ask a lot of questions bc i need to understand why i'm doing what i'm doing, i need to know exactly what my job entails & why, or simple curiosity. but he sees it as challenging his authority or "having an attitude," like i cannot communicate with this man.
anyway this comparison is super helpful to me to understand why he's like this lol
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Having ADHD is soo hard. I'm in grade 11 and i know i really KNOW i have to self study because if i donāt i won't graduate ect. And i donāt want a bad life yk. Then i get motivated thinking what i can do and when i want to start. My mind goes blank. I donāt know how to study and where to start and I'm not dumb rather smart and i know HOW good i can be in school but without someone standing behind me all the time and pushing me. I just can't yk
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Another massive factor is the guilt I feel/felt being not "100%" ADHD (Adult diagnosed). Because some days it would affect me really badly and some days I'd be closer to neurotypical behaviour - at least outwardly.
My wonderful psych explained that its all about how the environment affects me. For example, a more urgent environment brings my symptoms (inability to start things/inability to focus on things/self-sabotage) out at their worst. But in a calm environment (deadlines way off, no real urgency, etc) I can be totally level headed & even productive (mostly on things that interest me at the time though haha..) - and I tend to just buzz about starting & finishing little projects (even at work) because theres no particular importance looming over them.
But the moment something is "looming" or "expected" I put it off, engage in toxic productivity (doing everything BUT the important task) AND I enter a phase of self-sabotage & guilt till I snap one day and kick myself out of it (reaching my limit & getting angry with myself seems to be how I've overcome ADHD symptoms till now without meds)
Now I'm on meds and let me say, I feel like I can finally ACCESS who I really am. It's not scary, and it doesn't feel "new" it feels familiar! Like they help you feel like you would on your "good days". Everyone is different so your mix of meds could vary a lot but once you're on the right mix, it helps so much.
Sorry for the long post but I truly hope my story somehow helps someone out there.
Oh and just remember, there is a LOT to be gained from the unique perspective you have on the world thanks to your neurodiversity. If anyone is reading this, I hope you can find the joy in embracing your life story, embracing your personality & finding a way to live life the way you feel most comfortable & content <3
There is no one set path for anyone, you can write your own story :)
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I would even go further to say that the sense of urgency has to be PERSONAL (at least for me). If I donāt care, I donāt care. You know? I have something that has been hanging over my head for quite a while, and because I feel no personal connection to it, itās just not getting done. And looking at all the details of this particular situation, itās something that I SHOULD have a personal interest in, because it affects me directly. But for some reason with this one thing, I really just donāt care. And unfortunately thatās not something that someone on the outside is just going to understand.
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@Noochbaby
1 year ago
Soooo frustrating. So hard to explain to people that Iām not even motivated to do things I know I want to do and are important. ADHD is weird
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