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Importance doesn't motivate people with ADHD. #shorts #adhd #adhdawareness #adhdproblems #adhdlife #motivation
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@Noochbaby

1 year ago

Soooo frustrating. So hard to explain to people that Iā€™m not even motivated to do things I know I want to do and are important. ADHD is weird

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@virgomanifesting5414

9 months ago

And here I was just trying to find something to motivate me without making me feel more guilty I'm not doing the thing..

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@Yggdrasilincarnate

1 year ago

Urgency is definitely a thing. I can procrastinate all week on cleaning the house but if someoneā€™s coming over in an hour then look at me suddenly rushing around to get stuff clean (and then getting mad at myself for not doing it earlier).

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@unknownman399

11 months ago

Yes. And procrastinating gets you so tired.

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@MeredithDomzalski

1 year ago

When the depression kicks in on top of it, it's hard to even prepare food and eat sometimes.

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@mahnursoomro6062

3 months ago

One of the most frustrating things about ADHD is that you have to bear that all alone, locked up in a room two nights before your exam not being able to know what you did wrong to get to this point while your best friend is calling you constantly why aren't you studying???
You can't tell her bcz she won't get it she loves you but she won't get it.
And you have to bear that all alone bcz people don't know the difference between laziness and ADHD.
It's better to suffer alone than to be judged by your fav people...

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@mojojeinxs9960

11 months ago

Laying here cozy in my messy bedroom wishing for inspiration.

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@julyol119

4 weeks ago

It's honestly much easier when it's important to others. I can't, for the life of me, do anything for myself. When I do stuff, the two things I think about to motivate me is hoping to make life easier for the people around me. Sometimes it helps me to think of "tomorrow me" as another person.

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@aka.roryyy

5 months ago

this helped me realise that this is why me & my boss clash so much. he's a businessman, a salesman, a getting things done in a certain way type of boss. he wants results that he isn't getting & assuming it's my fault. whereas i do my job bc i want to, it's interesting, i have a certain amount of autonomy. I'm also autistic, & i ask a lot of questions bc i need to understand why i'm doing what i'm doing, i need to know exactly what my job entails & why, or simple curiosity. but he sees it as challenging his authority or "having an attitude," like i cannot communicate with this man.

anyway this comparison is super helpful to me to understand why he's like this lol

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@IJLSApsychology

11 months ago

One of my instructors aligned motivation with how serious someone takes something and I felt personally attacked. I take important tasks very seriously, but it doesn't mean I will ever feel motivated to do them.

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@llmaaz3140

1 year ago

Iā€™ll be in the corner dusting the leaves on my plant when I should be preparing for my very own brain surgery in the morning.

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@anasofiapinho

1 year ago

The most frustrating thing is when you have emotional overwhelm/cognitive dissonance on important things. We really want to do them, but we self-sabotage.
You're awesome and you got this! Good luck with your job interviews!

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@lilcovkr

11 months ago

Having ADHD is soo hard. I'm in grade 11 and i know i really KNOW i have to self study because if i donā€™t i won't graduate ect. And i donā€™t want a bad life yk. Then i get motivated thinking what i can do and when i want to start. My mind goes blank. I donā€™t know how to study and where to start and I'm not dumb rather smart and i know HOW good i can be in school but without someone standing behind me all the time and pushing me. I just can't yk

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@alisontames884

1 year ago

Yes. Hate when people say, ā€œIf it was important to you, you would be there on time.ā€ šŸ™„ No, I probably still wouldnā€™t. Iā€™d try, as always! But still be rushing at the last minute to get out the door

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@nyekocreativity

1 year ago

Another massive factor is the guilt I feel/felt being not "100%" ADHD (Adult diagnosed). Because some days it would affect me really badly and some days I'd be closer to neurotypical behaviour - at least outwardly.

My wonderful psych explained that its all about how the environment affects me. For example, a more urgent environment brings my symptoms (inability to start things/inability to focus on things/self-sabotage) out at their worst. But in a calm environment (deadlines way off, no real urgency, etc) I can be totally level headed & even productive (mostly on things that interest me at the time though haha..) - and I tend to just buzz about starting & finishing little projects (even at work) because theres no particular importance looming over them.

But the moment something is "looming" or "expected" I put it off, engage in toxic productivity (doing everything BUT the important task) AND I enter a phase of self-sabotage & guilt till I snap one day and kick myself out of it (reaching my limit & getting angry with myself seems to be how I've overcome ADHD symptoms till now without meds)

Now I'm on meds and let me say, I feel like I can finally ACCESS who I really am. It's not scary, and it doesn't feel "new" it feels familiar! Like they help you feel like you would on your "good days". Everyone is different so your mix of meds could vary a lot but once you're on the right mix, it helps so much.

Sorry for the long post but I truly hope my story somehow helps someone out there.

Oh and just remember, there is a LOT to be gained from the unique perspective you have on the world thanks to your neurodiversity. If anyone is reading this, I hope you can find the joy in embracing your life story, embracing your personality & finding a way to live life the way you feel most comfortable & content <3

There is no one set path for anyone, you can write your own story :)

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@jinx2100

5 months ago

I only have a week to finish all of my coursework. But Iā€™m watching this video. The sense of urgency might not kick in for another 5 days.

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@xondeez757

7 months ago

Ahhhhh now I finally understand why I only played competitive games and rarely story mode games šŸ˜‚

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@melissagodwin1594

1 year ago

I would even go further to say that the sense of urgency has to be PERSONAL (at least for me). If I donā€™t care, I donā€™t care. You know? I have something that has been hanging over my head for quite a while, and because I feel no personal connection to it, itā€™s just not getting done. And looking at all the details of this particular situation, itā€™s something that I SHOULD have a personal interest in, because it affects me directly. But for some reason with this one thing, I really just donā€™t care. And unfortunately thatā€™s not something that someone on the outside is just going to understand.

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@TokyoBlue587

1 year ago

I wish other people would just understand this. I cannot explain to my super-productive brother why I cannot seem to get boring tasks done.

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@IamSlacker

1 year ago

Showering and brushing my teeth fit in none of these categories...

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