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Absolutely! I grew up with people who could hold a grudge for weeks. When I met my husband, it was like a breath of fresh air. We rarely fight, but when we do, we refuse to move onto anything else until weāve hugged and āmoved onā, which usually takes, at most, 10-15 minutes of talking. Itās the healthiest relationship I know of.
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That's one of my husband's best strengths. After an argument or fight he gets back to normal so quickly its so refreshing because I like to sulk a little and that can be depressing. Once he gets something out ofbhis chest, he is good to go. He forgives easily and loves deeply. ā¤ļø
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Someone whose emotions fluctuate from anger to affection in a matter of hours and back and forth is also a sign of psychological instability.
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You need to also be understanding of what kinds of trauma that person has been through. You dont have to put up with the people that are doing nothing to help themselves. But the ones that are, be encouraging and make them feel like they are doing good when they are. It helps 100000000000%. Youd be surprised how much WE ALL NEED EACH OTHER
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I believe it's a sign of a psychological instability when someone just switches from angry mode into kissing mode within minutes. Thats like a red flag that says "psycho".
There are and should be fights where you are allowed to signal to the other person they overstepped by remaining silent even for days if needed! There are also people who need to be by themselves after a fight and do not like to communicate before fixing things within themselves first.
Also depending on how the fight went and what's been said you are allowed to not be willing to hug or talk to the other person. Talking, hugging and kissing is an exchange of energy and emotions that are not always available after a fight. Everybody needs a different amount of time to recover emotionally.
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Yep! Give yourself a few minutes to breathe and then REMEMBER this is the person you love.
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Just want to point out that many neurodivergent people struggle with recovering from their emotions, unexpected changes or disagreements and I wouldn't want them to feel discriminated against by what he is saying. People are multifasceted. No one is perfect. There's always going to be positive and negative aspects to a person's personality. Its more about finding connection and loving someone as a whole even for their flaws. Love isn't some robotic or mechanical thing. You are worthwhile to many ā¤ :)
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Itās important to remember that domestic abusers can be very charming and APPEAR very stable until they begin to escalate their abuse. It is never the victims fault for not being able to tell their partner would become abusive.
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That's one of my favorite things about my marriage... When we disagree We lay it All out on the table, all the truth, and then we get back to baseline almost immediately. We always come back to each other! š
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It depends on what the argument is over. If it's something trivial, sure, you should be back to normal within an hour or so. If it is something serious, you have a right to be angry longer than a day.
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I agree but it depends what the issue is. Wrecking a whole holiday because of a flight is beyond ridiculous and childish. Being upset (but still functioning) for over a day and a half because someone is ill, dying or someone deeply upsets you, I feel, is fine. Thereās a balancing act between being psychologically stable but also being sensitive enough to be a nurturing partner or parent. If youāre completely unfeeling and donāt react to anything, chances are youāll be quite a cold parent..
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Iāve never heard my past relationship explained so well. Grateful for my partner today šš¼
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Everyone's different depending on what was said if words deeply hurt you so what if it takes you longer to get over it
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So thatās what itās called. Used to take me a while to stabilize after bad disagreements. After 15 years of meditating, a bad disagreement or anger fades in about 10 minutes. Really works and transformed my life.
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I found myself having a lot of fights with my previous partner and dragging things out because I was really just unhappy with him so small stuff seemed bigger. Choose the right person. ā¤
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Depends on the situation. If your partner is not able to apologize or validate your feelings and grow from that you cannot go back to ānormalā and ignore the problem. Thatās a recipe for disaster.
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This is weirdly validating. I'm allowed to get mad at irritating stuff. I just don't stay mad about it.
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Psychopaths are very emotionally stable. Itās easy to be emotionally stable, when you have blunted emotions. This advice is not well thought through. No one wants to be with someone who is over reactive, but somethings take more time to process.
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Keep in mind that it takes women a different length of time to get back to baseline in her luteal phase vs her follicular phase vs menopause.
Also, the amount of REM sleep said person has access too will affect how long it takes to process an emotional load.
This is sage advice IF placed in context to biological reality
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@theredlocksband
1 week ago
Going back to normal quickly can also be a red flag
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