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So as a wedding guest you're kind of expected to bring a gift (unless you're like a teenager and your with your parents) at least in my experiences with weddings. And it should be something they need, or want, to help their new married life. And to me cash IS the same as gift, cause if they don't need anything, don't want anything, then what they need is cash. I don't thinks it's weird to say "we would rather cash than gifts" up front either because everyone can have the same expectations. People do stuff like that for funerals all the time don't they? "In stead of flowers the family asks you contribute to a charity under the person's name" ??
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Yea i dont see any issues with someone asking for money instead of a gift you can ask for something and still not expect it and not be upset of you dont get what you ask for. It seems like bride didnt expect people to pay like ive seen other brides but was just putting a notice that if anyone was thinking about buying a gift the money would be more useful to the couple. I see nothing wrong with that.
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I usually give money unless I know of something the couple is really wanting or needing. Honestly in this day many people are older when they get married so they already have everything they need for a home. So I feel it’s completely legit to give money to either help pay off the wedding or for honeymoon or whatever the couple needs. Why gift them something that will just end up in a garage sale when I can give them money that will actually help them.
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My husband and I lived together for a few years before we got married and already had everything. The only thing we lacked was money for a honeymoon. And we didn't want anything fancy as a honeymoon, just travel to another to state in our own country to sight see and enjoy the beach. So we did ask for any money donations that people were comfortable with and if they had already purchased a gift then that was fine, we had the request set out in poem form so it didn't seem so tacky. Most people were happy with that arrangement there were a few karen aunts who had purchased a gift and felt they were pressured into giving money as well but all in all it went over well. Your wedding is your own to create.
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It's not like she was telling people they couldn't come to the wedding if they didn't give her money! She knew very well that people didn't HAVE to give them money. It was just a suggestion for people that wanted to do something to celebrate the bride and groom since they didn't want to have to deal with gifts. Nothing wrong with that at all.
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I mean I rather get cash I could use towards a honeymoon over gift I DON'T NEED.... gifts were great for when people got married within a year or 2 of becoming an adult... when you likely wont have all the typical gifts... but I don't need a crock pot, or air fryer, or dishes... I don't need household items.. I HAVE ALL OF THOSE... and I picked them out so I know I like them...
But also I couldn't afford a wedding so...
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@Itz_Ur_Favorite_Leo
4 months ago
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