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In order to be calm and at ease with ourselves, we need regular periods where we do something rather strange-sounding: process our emotions. Here is a guide to this essential psychological move.

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“It is a quirk of our minds that not every emotion we carry is fully acknowledged, understood or even truly felt. There are feelings that exist in an ‘unprocessed’ form within us. A great many worries may, for example, remain disavowed and uninterpreted and manifest themselves as powerful directionless anxiety. Under their sway, we may feel a compulsive need to remain busy, fear spending any time on our own or cling to activities that ensure we don’t meet what scares us head on (these might include internet pornography, tracking the news or exercising compulsively). A similar kind of disavowal can go on around hurt. Someone may have abused our trust, made us doubt their kindness or violated our self-esteem but we are driven to flee a frank recognition of an appalling degree of exposure and vulnerability. The hurt is somewhere inside, but on the surface, we adopt a brittle good cheer (jolliness being sadness that doesn’t know itself), we numb ourselves chemically or else adopt a carefully non-specific tone of cynicism, which masks the specific wound that has been inflicted on us…”

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@David-rs6gm

2 weeks ago

I have recently read in an article about dealing with trauma that emotions are not there to hurt us. They all carry a message and it is important that we receive those messages to better understand ourselves. If we don't do this, they will come back later to haunt us....

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@qonitasyahira7042

2 weeks ago

I do journaling since i was a kid. One thing i notice that makes a huge difference when processing emotions is honesty. Sometimes i feel ashamed to admit what i feel, even though I'm alone. I often feeling like I'm being judged by being too vulnerable.

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@reddy272

2 weeks ago

This little short is absolute perfection, such a complicated thing explained in a simple way

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@missMagbeth

2 weeks ago

Keeping a journal or talking to an empty chair absolute are my go-tos. Something somebody said or did during the day can make me want to process it in the evening.

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@user-me9vk8df6p

2 weeks ago

And remember to always follow up the 'what' question with 'why'

"Why do i feel like this?"

It helps you understand yourself more. When you ask this questions, try not to be biased about your reason and don't lie to yourself especially when your angry. After it's been processed, just then u will decide how you will act on it. That's just a technique I've heard/learned.

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@cbrett84

2 weeks ago

Would love to see a version of this aimed at children. I think this could help them grow skills that are often not taught.

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@Alexwill-g8h

2 weeks ago

Dbt therapy has greatly improved my abilities to process emotions, especially difficult ones.

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@hsaqib8995

4 days ago

Thank you for sharing

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@IAMTatianaIAM

1 week ago

Thank you!❤

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@_DEX_-

2 weeks ago

So good! Thank you! Stay on this theme for a couple more videos please.🙏

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@kathydodge8028

2 weeks ago

Incredible as always! I think this is why journaling helped me so much, even though I hated the thought of journaling when it was suggested to me by my therapist. It's a good check in point.

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@hahaha8697

2 weeks ago

Thank you!

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@joyjones6927

2 weeks ago

Flashes of aggression, envy, sanity, shame and grief happen. #cepv #IMustWin

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@hra9923

4 days ago

Thank you

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@JiasenLiu

2 weeks ago

Mindfulness

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@olatundebanjoko7023

2 weeks ago

Thank you, Alan ❤

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@avielp

2 weeks ago

I've been doing that forever in therapy and in daily life and I can't say it helps. I suspect it's more of a hindrance, at least with me.
Perhaps the search for what I feel generates it's own reaction..

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@AniSxuxu

2 weeks ago

Brilliant, as always 🤍✨👌

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@shellys6761

2 weeks ago

It’s nice that school of life is back. It’s was sad when they went defunct.

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