I’m actually really shy and socially awkward irl.

But this trip allowed me to expand my comfort zone and meet sooo many amazing people. ☺️

Growing up as an only child, I never had to share toys or socialize with other kids. I was never good at communicating my emotions because I got so used to talking to myself.

The reason why I’m so passionate about communication skills is because I didn’t have it.

I was often called ‘boring’ that I thought my voice didn’t matter and I tried to be someone else to be accepted and be liked. That’s when I abandoned my comfort zone to mask myself as someone else.

But that can only last for so long...

I didn’t know who I was, what I liked, and how to accept myself when I spent all this time denying who I truly am.

It led to the biggest burnout, and holy moly quarter-life crisis. 🙃

Maybe some people go through some magical transformation✨, but me? I just got too tired to continue the act and thought, ‘idgaf, this is what you get. like it or leave it!’ 🤷🏻‍♀️

If I could talk to my younger-self, I would tell her that she doesn’t have to step outside of her comfort zone completely to grow, but she can expand it to a point where a lil bit of discomfort is felt.

Attending @minolee.mp4 ‘s Creator Meetup was an amazing time and a reminder that there are other passionate creators out there! 🎨

I had to expand my comfort zone and face my fear of visiting a big city. But I also stayed within my comfort zone by choosing to enjoy night view of NYC while enjoying slices of new york pizza in my hotel, instead of going to the afterparty.

I grew from this trip, but also felt safe holding my desires sacred.

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What are your thoughts on comfort-zo