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Top Comments of this video!! :3
Right !! Huge discovery. His promise of change. Stayed years .. Then packed up during the night after seeing something on his phone .
Iām free after 39 yrs!!
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It was that. I put up with so much! Then it was an argument where she started and I just told my self and this is where it ends.. then I realized the many masks she wore. How she treated people and how she treated me. Itās been tough but life is much better.
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This is so true. I knew it was abuse, all unacceptable and I didnāt deserve it for a very long time. One day when he wasnāt with me, the psychologist we had been going to called. She had tested him and told me itās what I could expect more of for my future ā¦and asked can you accept him for who he isā¦I just was like no I cannot. Hearing it from someone else and the idea of of that forever hit me in the face. No fanfare. Just a NO and a defining done moment for sure!
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I was baby trapped and money trapped. The moment I really felt sick enough to leave, I couldnt. I had 3 kids, youngest was colicky and a couple months old. I was 100% dependent on my exhusband (trad-life). I had no family nearby, nowhere to go. I would have left then but it was just not possible.
So instead I just kept trying and hoping but when my kids were older, I did finally leave.
The ex made it very difficult and dragged the case out, causing me to take less than what I was entitled to just to be done with it. It's been very hard, but still a lot better than being married to the narc.
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He had forgotten my birthday, I had driven to this country store and parked. I felt so so alone and trapped. I started listening to Dr. Ramini, āloving a Narc is like loving a porcupine.ā ššš I couldnāt continue FEARING going home. I made a SECRET PLAN. Implemented said plan with the skill and strength of an academy winner actress. To avoid the hover, if he needed any further contact after the eviction, he had to call my girlfriendās phone. She was my intermediary. Involving other trusted individuals portrays a united front. Leaving a Narc is relationship WAR. Be sa
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Yep š I had that moment almost 13 years ago. Had enough of the disrespect and abuse. I snapped and I was out
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You are absolutely right! It was when he got so dam sloppy with the dumb mind control š š when he said it was a joke I walked o
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Yes! When he got cold callous indifferent and nasty thats when Jesus gave me the strength to leave
It was during prayer I heard you are fearfully and wonderfully made by the most high God
Psalms 139:14 in the Living bible God through Jesus us healing my bruised and kicked over heart
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For me, the Narcissist was rude to me and I shucked it off, but then he started doing things toward my adult son who is a wounded warrior.? That was itā¦ bye!!!
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You canāt believe the shock and the pain of the betrayal and it knocks you on your a ss and so you canāt leave at that moment or at least I couldnāt. Itās so painful and bewildering.
I needed time to regroup and really understand what the h ell was happening.
Once I did, which for me took three years, and then I was gone for good. He kept being abusive all of those years too and got worse even. I had to change my pattern of putting up w abuse and I did.
I stayed quiet, made my exit plan, talked w life coaches, my family, my kids and regained enough strength to be able to get away from an abusive husband.
Much love to anyone going through it. Itās rough. But you can succeed. One step at a time.
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It was a small moment for me. It was confining within my sister about whether I should break up with my ex or not. She told me to look at all the pros and cons about being in a relationship with him and the cons outweighed the pros so I ditched him. That was the best decision I've ever made in my life. I have been 5 years free from that relationship plus, seven states away. It was a small step but, it was the biggest leap I've ever took.
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I was in a eight year relationship with the ups and downs of abuse of emotionally, verbally, physically. Only showed his true self behind doors. And he show to others that he was this highly sought after man. Took me over nine times of breaking up that caught my attention to become the last.
I was just so upset that the person I entrusted my whole being to only to have been betrayed, shattered & belittled me just so that they could have full control over everything and anything that I did nor said, that was not love. That was manipulation to the fullest because he didn't like himself and he thought that he could change other people.
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I love this term!! So true!!
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mine was when he had no empathy and couldnt fake it or hide it anymore, he could only see his pain my reaction to his abuse ... big wake up
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I had my breaking shelf moment some time ago....
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āTis not loveās going hurts my days but that it went in little waysā it wasnāt cheating or some other big thing but rather that he chipped away at me day by day until I had nothing left to give.
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Yup, my breaking point was while I was cooking after a long day at work. My (now) ex made criticisms of two trivial things in the cooking being done. I told him if he felt the need to find fault with such minor things, I didnāt know how he could live with me.
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He said he was going to unalive me on Monday, and throw my body in the manure pit where it would dissolve in a day or two. So, I packed the kids up and drove 500mi. He was furious, because heād paid out on a million dollar life insurance policy on me, and smaller policies on the kidsā¦ said he wanted to collect and retire! 20yrs later, he was still attacking me in court.
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Reality.....
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@Lotusawj
3 months ago
For me the moment was when he said i wasn't a priority. Not that he hid things from me, was late, treated me unfairly, triangulated with other women, etc. It was the "whispering" not the "shouting".
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