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Kippert, A. (2022, Nov 23). Explaining DARVO: Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim & Offender. Domestic Shelters. www.domesticshelters.org/articles/identifying-abus…
Lancer, D. (2017, Apr 3). Forms of Emotional and Verbal Abuse You May Be Overlooking. Psychology Today. www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/toxic-relationship…
Patterson, E. (2022, Jun 1). DARVO: Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim & Offender. Choosing Therapy. www.choosingtherapy.com/darvo/
The Clayman Institute for Gender Research. (2021, Dec 13). You’ve been DARVOed and you don’t even know it. Stanford University. gender.stanford.edu/news/youve-been-darvoed-and-yo…
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My mom has the same behavior, always blaming everything on me when something bad happens even though it was clear I wasn't at fault. I always tell her my problems and achievements, but whenever I made a small mistake that's easily overlook she would get angry.And tell me I don't deserve the achievements I get because I'm useless and a burden, even blaming me for my problems which greatly affected my mental health and my trust for her. I learned to never tell my problems and achievements to her because I know she'll use it against me.
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Please, don’t you ever stop talking about. It’s important that everyone knows they need to speak up for themselves! They deserve to live a good life! They deserve to be treated as a human being! Stop abuse once and for all!!! 🌸
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My last relationship was exactly like this. My ex was constantly gaslighting me over everything, and wouldn't take full responsibility for their actions. Even accused me of cheating when I wasn't. About a month after the breakup, they even got a hold of my closest friend as a means to worm their way back into my life. I'm out of that toxic environment now, and I feel much better. 😌
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My current partner is like this he deflects the responsibility on the way he can't help someone who is dealing with inattentive adhd when I have problems with compulsiveness, my anxiety is so scary he tells me it's an excuse and I frequently cry, other people who have family members with adhd like this sweet lady held my hand while he just walked by when I was overwhelmed with stimulation I wish we could have more compassionate souls ♥ she was so kind to hold my hand and talk to me and that's what I needed and she cares about me. ♥ ❤
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Sending cosmic hugs to those that need them ❤❤❤🌈🌈
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My mom did this for years. Sadly when I did record and document what happened, I was often yelled at for breeching her right to privacy and threatened with legal action for having any form of recording of abuse even if I wasn't intentionally recording her. Additionally, she'd gaslight me into thinking that maybe I didn't remember it correctly. It just led to further manipulation and people seeing me in a darker light and her in the brighter one.
I'm still slowly healing and my significant other stands firm by my side in protecting me and reinforcing to me that I wasn't crazy, but have been driven to insanity now because of them.
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Psych2go is the best, you must have saved so many people, me included. The voice over artists do such an incredible job of making you feel safe even when discussing difficult topics like this. These videos are like a well needed hug
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And NO, telling someone ahead of time that they might do something to hurt you, barring a safety concern, DOES NOT absolve them from taking responsibility and apologizing.
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As a 15 year old in a conservative joint family nither reaching a healthcare professional nor having a talk with family members is possible for me but your videos do help me alot please do not stop ❤
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Energy never lies. Just remember that. If you feel like something is wrong, chances are, it probably is.
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I had an ex who’d use the term DARVO all the time to try and dismiss/pin things on me when I was trying to warn my friends about him- he even would tell my friends I was doing it and got some to interrogate me when I was trying to move on from him. Hardly knew what it meant until now, thought it was an interrogation tactic, but luckily that drama with him is over and I’ve had time to heal
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Often, it is “family” or “loved ones” perpetrating emotional abuse; often, there IS no trusted person to turn to; abusers typically create this situation deliberately. Therapy is often expensive, waiting lists are long, and not every therapist is any better than the average friend. It needs to be said more, though, that if someone hurts you repeatedly in any way, making no effort to change; at least, not that lasts; upon learning the pain they are causing; they are in the wrong and are not good for you to be around! ❤
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From my mother, to 18 years of marriage to an abusive ex. I'm still struggling with MDD, suicidal thoughts and such self hatred at 68 years of age!
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My husband was always the victim, never did anything wrong. I was called an evil b. Yet once he left me for his mistress, she told me he cheated on me countless of times..
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Often it’s those ‘loved ones’ you should be able to reach out to that are the ones responsible for the emotional abuse. It can be very subtle, only becoming more transplant as they up the pressure when they fear they are losing their hold over you.
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My ex-girlfriend did this. She was manipulative and she would always switch the blame on me. Once she said “If I’m not the dumb one, what am I?” And I responded “I just know you aren’t stupid.” That wasn’t what she wanted to hear. When I told her this wouldn’t work out because I was trans ftm and she would say all the time, (practically making it her personality)that she was a lesbian. she didn’t respond. then continued to act like we were dating. Then when I told her outright I don’t want to date her anymore, she ghosted me. Then continued to tell EVERYONE that I ghosted her. This is unrelated, but she would also tell some people that she was trans and would tell some she was on testosterone, but tell others she was on estrogen. It’s illegal here to have those types of hormones under 18. She also would tell me she was an only child. She has two siblings. She lied a lot about who she was to get on people’s good side, and I realize only now how much of a jerk she is.
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This is so sad 😢 all support to people going through this
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My best friend was abusive and also used this tactic on me and many others.
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Sometimes it can be the very loved ones that are causing the emotional abuse
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