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Gaslighting Things Manipulators Do To Control You
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ā€œGaslightingā€ is a term inspired by a 1944 film called ā€œGaslight.ā€ In the film, a husband tries to manipulate his wife into believing she is ā€œlosing her mindā€ to get her taken into an asylum and steal her jewels. One of his most prominent tactics was affecting the gas lights in the house to flicker but would deny that anything was out of the ordinary when confronted. In a previous video, 5 Phrases Gaslighters Use to Control You, we talked about some gaslighter phrases. In this video, weā€™ll dive deeper into the gaslighters themselves. Letā€™s begin.

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@touchmesama7161

6 months ago

Always remember guys people can't use you if you're useless

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@traptheman7708

6 months ago

This opened my eyes to a friend I cut out 2 months ago being a gaslighter, thank you.

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@ManyArmedMooseDei

2 months ago

What can complicate things further is when people donā€™t even realise what theyā€™re saying or doing is gaslighting someone. They may not intend it, but their reactions can have such effect. This tends to be particularly prevalent in parent-child relationships, as I know firsthand from childhood experiences struggling with feelings of inadequacy and low self esteem.

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@parvkale

1 month ago

Unfortunately iā€™m the manipulator and I truly regret everything iā€™ve done. Iā€™ve lost friendships in the past including my best friend who I had a crush on for a long time. I tried getting her to like me for a long time but now she blocked me because I couldnā€™t take no for an answer. 8 months later she finally unblocked me to give me a second chance and iā€™m not loosing it. Iā€™m going to completely change myself and give her space and Iā€™ll be a good friend this time.

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@bartholetbay412

6 months ago

A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient

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@Yxri-b4w

6 months ago

These two girls that i used to be friends with gaslighted me, hurt me mentally and physically. They denied it and claimed that they "cared" for me... thses two girls would away be on each other's sides, and make me feel bad...i try to stand up for myself but they don't take me seriously...

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@kearadenton6432

6 months ago

I'm just easy to gaslight.. My dad has been gaslighting me for a while now, and it was pretty obvious. Him and my mom aren't together, so I used to go over to his house. Though, due to some personal reasons I have stopped seeing him. When I told him that I would be taking a break from him, he said something along the lines of "So I don't matter anymore?" or "So you don't love your dad?". He's been saying stuff like that for a long time, and I only realized what was happening the last time he did it.

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@oleg4209

6 months ago

Thanks for helping me to convince myself to begin manipulating people!

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@Jan-kq1vy

6 months ago

Yes, I'm dealing with an egotistically narcissistic gaslighter!

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@Piper_McLean-charmspeaker

1 month ago

But.... I gaslight myself to forget my past...

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@ChocoParfaitFra

6 months ago

Iā€™ll give you an example cause it happened to me for real:
My ex and I were talking and I asked him to tell me when he was going to sleep cause I didnā€™t want to stay there waiting for his reply when in reality he was sleeping, and he said ok. The thing is that he left once again without saying anything. I was mad cause Iā€™ve asked him something very easy but he broke it, so I had to wait the next day to tell him that I didnā€™t like that he left without saying anything, cause I asked him to tell me that and he also agreed. Itā€™s a simple message you know? He got mad at me saying that if I care about these things it means I have nothing in my life and that I had to find something to do, and the conversation was suddenly about me. This is about respect, he didnā€™t respect something that I care about and instead of acknowledging it and apologizing he flipped the conversation. All of a sudden I was the problem, not him. Beware of these kind of tactics

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@Maybe-d2e

6 months ago

Except when your mental health professionals are the ones using manipulation to keep you stuck and they have many helpers within the community. Using also technology to aid in their evaluation of where you're at in order to show where they should aim their efforts. In the community I live these people are truly monsters with a maximum amount of control.

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@KsigmaH

2 weeks ago

I will be honest I am gaslighting someone. Itā€™s because they were gonna tell everyone something (who my crush is) so Iā€™m trying to gaslight them into thinking Iā€™ve never liked anyone. I feel bad but I just gotta.

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@SourceEnginePlayer

6 months ago

gaslighting can be boiled down to: "nuh uh"

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@sherbert_the-alien

2 months ago

why did i start thinking of odetari when it said narcissistic personality disorder

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@waykee3

6 months ago

Being termed as rude and manipulative when I set my boundaries.

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@Livi_CRAZY

6 months ago

one time my dad told me "anyone who believes in pride is evil" and later when i brought it up, he said "no. no, i didn't say that"

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@CalamitySpur-50710

6 months ago

My best friend has narcissistic tendencies. He always tells me that he gaslights and manipulates me and his friends subconsciously. I know it isn't good for me, but he keeps insisting that he's truly trying to change. I believe him and I love him very, very much. And no matter what, I'll continue to love him.

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@DeeDoesPlays

6 months ago

Here to see if Iā€™m a gaslighter

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@RoseMaddeRLLC

5 months ago

Absolutely šŸ’Æ accurat

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