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You do NOT have to have the same everything, you wont have the same friends, same exact hobbies, same preferences, etc. And its not healthy to, its a show of trust to not pressure your partner to merge every part of their lives with yours.
You were individuals before the relationship, dont lose it because you now have a SO.
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Also, love isnt about cookie cutter personalities. Its about learning and growing to love eachother as time goes on, but don't force it. It should come somewhat naturally. You will change and become leftovers of your former self, especially if you are young or the relationship lasts for years. Also, you might do a complete 180 of who you were. Or the same with them. It is about loving eachother before, during, and after these changes.
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This is something ive learned over the years, if they expect you to drop all of your friends because "they will force/convince you to cheat" leave them. They don't trust you and are trying to make you think your friends are bad people (unless your friends are actually like that then obviously listen to them if they have solid proof) and are trying to isolate you from them.
The other thing ive learned is if they get mad that you visit male family members, leave immediately. They don't want any men in your life that will be able to physically stand up to him when he physically abuses you. Same goes with male friends. (THATS RIGHT US WOMEN CAN HAVE MALE FRIENDS AND NOT BE SEXUALY ATTRACTED THEM!!)
Just be straight forward when you go on your first date. It'll definitely help in the long run, because you have to watch their body language when having the conversation. If they do things that make your stomach churn (in a bad way, not the good way.) When having said conversation, keep talking about it no matter how hard they try to change the subject or take over the conversation. They will snap, and show their true colors. I did this on a first date, that "relationship" ended pretty much as soon as it started. I had friends and family throughout the restaurant that we were at just in case too.
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Taking self-care days where you go out, or aren't around your s/o is healthy and needed. It's hard to appreciate things, when you grown to expect those things. It could be just a day out or a vacation, but just something to not only give you both breathing room, but also time to make sure your personal goals and ideals are where you want them to be. And know what you have to do to get them there. Whether that's "I should focus on this or that to get that promotion at work I wanted," or "Wow, my mental health isn't where I want it to be. I should really focus on that more."
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There's a right time to talk about what is wrong in a relationship. Talking about issues in the moment or when all you can think of is retorts is NOT the time. Wait until you can say it out of love and concern for your partner and be willing to strike a balance in talking about each others faults and how to help each other improve.
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I’m only 18 and have never even been in a relationship before, but I always listen to advice like this and strive to have something like this someday. My parents are divorced and while they got along good with coparenting and they’re now happy with their respective partners, I always wished in a way that they could’ve made it work. I wanna work hard for my marriage and hope my future husband will too so we can give our kids a stable and loving environment.
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@mordecaimonarch8209
1 week ago
Never date someone who makes you feel like you have to hide your stuffed animals.
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