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Genre: Education
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Uploaded At Oct 9, 2024 ^^
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What do we do if thatās how we raised taught and is still expected of us. I donāt feel boundaries work very well with parents. They have a world view that they are kind of our owners and boss for the whole of our lives and itās not a blind spot where they would say oh ok I see your point, Iām sorry and then change. Itās more like how dare you are you crazy, I am your mother / father, I brought you into this world, this is my right and where is your ārespectā and double down then tell the whole of the world how terrible you are so they hopefully agree and take sides with them against you. And the taboo of walking away or cutting of because itās never going to end. Boundaries are really really hard if they are shocking and unacceptable to most traditional people. There really feels like you canāt win or find peace either way. I love that you teach boundaries and I am in awe of people who do them. For many the amount of bravery and consequences for doing them especially if you also canāt walk away if they are trampled and punished for ever and it will never change- that is exhausting amongst other things. I guess in some cases it is pick your poison cos both are painful.
My friends motherinlaw only thought it was sad that her daughter had breast cancer because she does so much for others and a lot of people rely on including her and she was scared what would she do if her DIL did survive. Her main focus was feeling sorry for herself that her DIL might die.
When she described anyone and assessed them it was always in terms of āserviceā - I hate that term thatās taken off. Not help, contribute, collaborate, cooperate etc but āserviceā. The same as āperson, man, woman of valueā another excessively used meme term. It seems culture is promoting codependency more than ever.
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@briannatilden1740
1 month ago
Spot on. Need this on repeat. ā¤
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