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Doesnât matter what you do. How patient, understanding, no matter what tactics like fighting for them or backing off giving them space theyâre never âsafeâ and blame you and punish you for it. Nothing is good enough for them and they donât appreciate anything
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It sucks because you can really love them and be healthy yourself, and this will still happen. I was gentle with him and patient and wanted to understand and still got left. Hurts like hell because being good to him and getting along well got me pushed away. đ˘
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The reason they donât fight for relationships is because they have this mindset that âpeople are still going to leave anywayâ. Avoidance is not an atrachment it is a protective mechanism
(Edit) Avoidance is not an attachment style it is a detachment style
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My fearful avoidant partner is slowly starting to open up to me the last couple of days by sharing how he feels. He said he felt stressed because he had a busy day, he said he was frustrated about something (it had nothing to do with me) and he said that he felt like a failure when something went wrong in his life. I know it doesn't sound much, and the things he shared weren't really possitive, but the fact that he shared/expressed it to me is a small victory...
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I fought for her after she dropped me.. There was absolutely no feeling, no excuse, nothing just only "My freedom" like i was a burden to her.. That is so painful to live with that.
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It's up to them if they want to improve or not
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All this and you would have moves mountains to make it work, ur just left missing your best friend
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Avoid the avoidants. Total waste of time and energy. Let them work on themselves through professional therapy. Let go and move on from them.
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so true. you just expect to be left at some point anyway so once your pratner says they are breaking up with you, you just say 'okay'. Fighting seems useless because in your head you would really only be fighting for a delay of the inevitable end.
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This is absolutely me. 100% to the "T."
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Speak sister. This is exactly explaining myself.
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You are so great at your work and so wise! And so naturally pretty! With your eyes and natural features. (Perhaps you have gotten this comment before, but Im genuinely saying it because I want the best for you, and also for me so I don't get so distracted when wanting to listen to your content. And sometimes we don't even see ourselves yk? I just wonder why you wear so harsh makeup? And to be perhaps too honest.. I almost can't focus on the topic bc the makeup is so over the top. That must be how you like it, but I just wanted to say that your natural features are gorgeous in themselves. From my perspective I think you'd shine more in your natural beauty with less makeup, more natural eyebrows etc. đ Hope it's ok that I unsolicited gave my perspective. đ And I know it's annoying to get feedback on appearance when one's content is about the actual great high quality teachings. But we'll, I've thought about it many times when watching your videos and I guess finally I just actually say it for what it's wort
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That freakin sucks cuz I have reached out many times to bury the thoughts of me being upset with himâŚâŚ. But one thing I will not do is chase a man who behaves like Iâm a nuisance to him.
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What's the point of even dating a dismissive avoidant? To this day, I still don't know why she broke up with me. Just when I thought we were getting somewhere, she broke with me. It was a very confusing relationship.
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That incapable part hit do hard... That's how I feel...
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Your videos made sense. I understand better now â¤
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yep
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I find they unaware of their own poor behaviours and actions and wonât take accountability. Theyâre so sensitive to their own needs theyâll avoid you until you put them first all the time. Move on and find someone healthier so you can feel equal and worthy- you are not someone to run away from.
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Very interesting.
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@geoffreybester7953
1 month ago
They prefer to be in a non-existent relationship, whereby they are single, but in a relationship
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