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All Iām gonna say is yes, he wanted to be helpful, but if she didnāt leave him any instructions on it, he shouldnāt have touched it and if he did want to do something to it, he should have called and asked first. Now I donāt think it was worth canceling the trip over, but her being upset about it was rightful and his reaction to her being upset about him messing up something sentimental she has had for 15 years was not ok, he shouldnāt have touched it without permission and telling her she is overreacting and āitās just a plantā proves his ignorance because if he knew anything about terrariums, he would know that itās an entire ecosystem with living organisms and not just plants. Clearly he has a lack of understanding of not only terrariums, but emotional attachment, sentiment and asking before touching someoneās stuff, even if you are married
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If he allowed himself to feel anything but anger when things inconvenience him, he might feel regret, sorrow, compassion. Instead it's excuses and accusations. Today it's her plant. Tomorrow it's grandma's china. Maybe her wedding dress in the closet. But God forbid she put a dent in his car. I am jumping this way because he doesn't care that he's killed something she's carefully tended for more than a decade. If she did the same, he'd have a right to be upset--I don't care if it's a plant, his dog, or his Minecraft world, the things you care about should be respected.
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Canceling anniversary plans seem to be a bit much. If my husband tried cleaning up my sewing area while I was away and accidentally ruined my machine or a project without even noticing something was wrong, I wouldn't not celebrate our anniversary because of it. BUT he would also be incredibly apologetic over it. My judgment would depend on: were things perfect and this is the first time he's done something like this, or is he always this careless and invalidates her feelings. It's impossible to know someone's character and intentions from one isolated incident.
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@thesheerwoodcrow5465
1 month ago
NTA my step dad did the same thing. Destroyed my grandmaās terrarium under the guise of āhelpingā. Turns out he poured bleach into it because he knew it was the last remaining thing my grandma had created. It wonāt stop at a plant it will only get worse. The fact that he calls you āungratefulā for having your things destroyed and doesnāt at least say sorry says more about him than you think.
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