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Emotional closeness doesn't kill passion — it fuels it! ❤️‍🔥 A study of 70,000 couples (read about it in the book - The Normal Bar) found that sharing, cuddling, and deep talks build lasting love and desire. Real connection = real passion. 💬💖 #relationships #love #emotionalintimacy #relationshipadvice #couplegoals #gottman

*A study of 70,000 couples found that emotional closeness, including sharing, cuddling, and deep talks, does not diminish passion but instead fuels it. This study, conducted by Chrisanna Northrup, Pepper Schwartz, and James Witte, revealed that couples who reported a great sex life tended to prioritize emotional connection

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@rainbowconnected

5 months ago

What a strange thing to believe that emotional closeness is bad for intimacy. Why share one's body with someone you cannot share your heart and dreams with? I would have a hard time feeling passionate about someone who does not want to know me in a deep way.

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@belleofthecamp6530

5 months ago

I can totally concur ❤ after 40+ years of not meeting my person I finally did a couple years ago and the emotional connection is our most valuable asset and keeps us happy and motivated to resolve anything that comes along. And as a bonus we’ve never been more sexually fulfilled. It’s wonderful!

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@carmenmichaelian8307

5 months ago

I agree that emotional connection is important for two people who care for each other.

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@pattidugo9583

5 months ago

You and your husband are two amazing people ❤ love your perspective on couples. If anyone wants a strong relationship, just look at the way you two live and enjoy each other in every aspects in a passionate, caring relationship. Thank You!!

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@Lollisbeewellorganics

4 months ago

I long for emotional connection with my husband but Im beginning to see it will never happen. We’ve been together 20 years. He’s too emotionally unavailable. He thinks Im the problem because I want to talk and resolve our issues. I have loved deeply, fought hard, and stayed longer than most would have—all because I hoped, believed, and cared.
I’ve tried everything to bring life back into this marriage.
I’ve spoken with truth and softness.
I’ve gotten quiet. I’ve gotten bold.
I’ve apologized for things I didn’t break.
I’ve bent so far trying to keep the peace, I’ve almost disappeared.

And still… he blames, he avoids, he denies.
He drinks, he withdraws, he rewrites history.
He hurts me emotionally, and when I ask why, I’m met with silence or shame.
The relationship isn’t emotionally safe.
It isn’t nourishing.

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@jenniferhumble1787

5 months ago

Thank you for creating these helpful clips and videos.

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@backslash1233

5 months ago

Emotional closeness is bad for a relationship?! What kinda butt backwards ideology is that?! It’s vitally important to our relationships! Thank you Dr. Julie for speaking on this!

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@tanahelmer8381

4 months ago

Friendship very important for long term relationship

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@Mushroom321-

4 months ago

Yes!!!!", to be known !", 😊 great content !

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@melissajackson1814

4 months ago

Thank you so much, Julie 💗

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@Sommyie

5 months ago

I enjoy cuddling more than snuggling and I'm born male. I feel alone in this.

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@thecurrentmoment

4 months ago

What in the world - the thing that 'brinfs together' is the desire for closeness. Ohysically close, yes, but also emotionally and evey other way. I mean, we do that with friends too, we want to spend time with them not because we want to emphasise how far apart we are, but because we like to feel close to other people.

Very strange idea thinking that emotional distance would make a relationship stronger (occassionally you do need distance), so no surprise to me that emotional closeness leads to more enjoyable physical closeness

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@afl92423

5 months ago

Will this be on fb page?

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@indigochild6079

5 months ago

Even for men ?

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@funnyflower113

5 months ago

could you cite the research? :)

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@danielamondschein

5 months ago

Intimacy - Into me see

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