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However, I have a different opinion.
#datinginjapan #cheating #japaneseculture
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Once a cheater, always a cheater. You don't paint a tiger all one color and change what it is.
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If you can't communicate effectively, in any way with your partner it honestly makes me doubt that you should have a relationship at all.
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Cheating is not good. How we live with integrity, honoring high values with discipline is how we can have a good life.
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I was dating a single mother in Osaka and she wouldnât let me tell her daughter I was her boyfriend and I couldnât meet her friends!
It was until I broke up with her that I contacted her friends on instagram and showed my pictures of us dating and our Line chat info that some of them came clean and thought she already had a partner!
If really fucked me up that I couldnât meet her friends, she said because I didnât have a interest in cars I couldnât meet them and then when I had a interest it was because I didnât have a car and then it came to the point where if I met her friends sheâd say I was a stalker and she doesnât know me!
Well she canât lie to me or her friends anymore!
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Trustworthiness is the most important element in a relationship. Communication is a close second. Cheating involves destroying these two things. Interests change, location changes, culture itself changes, society changes, bodies change, people change! So many things people base relationships on always change. Marriage and a relationship is built upon trust and commitment regardless of all of these changes.
Everyone in the world should know WHY cheating is wrong not just that it is wrong. If they don't know why it's wrong they will never take it seriously.
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Had no problem dating japanese girl and accepting their culture. Very clean and oriented. The only problem I had was she cheated and after 5 months I found out. It was time to say goodbye.
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So, the answer is yes, and the rest was just some rambling.
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Well, it is def. an actual thing, which she does hastily admit between breaths, so raising awareness of it is very important IMHO so people can make more i formed decisions and judgement calls in such relationships, especially if coming from cultures where cheating is considered one of the worst things you can do (for men and women)
This was one of the biggest culture shocks I had when I first moved to Japan, the casuality of how people approached cheating as more of a norm, rather than an exceptionally vile sin you'd hide to your grave if it ever took place. Where I live, you are expected to talk about open marriage or split up, if you are tempted to engage in such activities, cheating on your spouse is considered the worst kind of cowardly insult you could do to him/her
How you live your life and how you organize your relationships is up to the couple to decide, but both members have to know what rules are in use, and accept them
so tl;dr; I don't think it is fair to start drama by calling out other channels, especially when they are right
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I'm just glad bad stuff about Japan has come to light around the internet in recent years. Some people really do think Japan is the closes we have to an utopia bruh
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I tried being friends with a few foreigners years ago and the language barrier is what kept the friendships from continuing
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To be honest cheating is relatively common in Asia compared to in America at least. Cheating tends to happen because a lot of Japanese women who are young are socially pressured into marriage at a young age and some jump into relationships and then end up regretting it or in their relationship they donât communicate with their boyfriend or husband or he no longer gives her physical attention. This same issue occurs in America with people who jump into relationships too fast. A lot of the women I tend to attract have boyfriends or husbands. Thereâs a cheating or more sleeping around problem in America right now with the younger generation where most American girls donât want relationships
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Thanks for this video. It was making me weary of Japanese women, when I seen these videos, where they were interviewed and mostly all of them were into cheating themselves and had friends or knew of other Japanese women that cheat. I would think cheating is a world wide thing, say in the US, but the difference between the US and Japan, Japanese women seemed to be openly proud of it and donât care if others knew. While in the US people arenât openly and proud about cheating and donât want others to know about it. Thanks for this again Asagi. I hope you donât cheat on your partners. Youâre a very beautiful woman with an amazing personality and there should only be one guy who gets to have that. And itâs the same the other way around a great guy should only be for one great girl.
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I believe it's the same common as everywhere in the world
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I needed to hear that. Thanks.
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Still not taking my chances there on statistics alone. I'm aiming more towards south-east Asia where is it less likely, Philippines is no where near the top ten countries, US being the number one with a close to 70% chance, Japan is around 50%. In the Philippines given how family oriented their culture is & when it comes to international couples there, they can't mess up otherwise you'll be disowned as explained to me by a few friends I know there, cheating can happen there, just alot less likely in general, even less with foreigners. Because of hardships being in a second world country, they learnt to take relationships serious for practical reasons, well as emotional.
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My wife and I have been very happily married for more than 26 years, as a mixed culture couple we have as a basic guideline a rule that says never to move the other outside of their comfort zone, not compromise, but total acceptance of the others cultural norms.
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Cheating is unfortunately high over here too. All the time athletes you look up to are discovered to have utilized performance-enhancing drugs.
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I 100% agreeing lived I Japan and China. Cheating is the last problem
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Cheating is just a personal problem. Have an international relationship(Japanese), but we have no issue communicating as we find ways over language barriers, culture gaps, etc.
While there are reasons for it, you can simply just break up if you arenât happy and tried absolutely everything to salvage the relationship.
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@napoleonfeanor
10 months ago
I rescued the relationship of a longterm Japanese female online friend. Communication problem. She felt he wasn't loving her anymore because he talked less and seemed less interested in physical affection. She feared different scenarios. I explained male psychology to her (like men being much worse in understanding female emotions from non-verbal cues) and said it is most likely he is stressed from work and has no idea she has those fears. I recommended her to simply talk to him about what she feels. It worked out, he was just overworked and they are married now.
I think cheating usually comes from such emotional communication problems when the communication problems persist over a longer time, at least in normal relationships.
We cannot just expect our partner to read our mind.
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