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my therapist told me I have all the ingredients of autism but never baked the autism cake... whatever the fuck that means
I am not going to this therapist anymore
can people please stop trying to diagnose me with anything? all I said is my old therapist said something that I didn't understand and people now are telling me I have a list of different disabilities. I have never been assessed by a psychiatrist, so I don't know and you don't either. stop pretending you do.
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I had a therapist tell me my eye contact was too good. Like, yeah lady because I got yelled at too much. Its still hurting my brain to do it. Funny thing is- that made me realize that ultimately masking was making my life harder and that not all people did it, so I just stopped. Teachers didn't like it, but I had so much more energy and actually started getting offered help by peers. Surprise surprise, a year later my parents had me reevaluated as a teenager and I got diagnosed.
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I got the âwell your talking to me no problem right now so you canât have any issues communicatingâ when I had a disability benefits assessment. I had been heavily masking and FORCING myself to speak the ENTIRE day because the last time I was struggling to communicate and didnât do that we had our benefits taken away for ârefusing to complete the assessmentâ when really the assessor refused to agree on any form of communication other than direct verbal communication with me. I ended up in hospital because disability benefits was the only thing allowing us to afford to have the heating on during the coldest part of winter and I canât regulate my body temperature and I didnât want to almost freeze to death a second time. I was so burnt out I couldnât talk for almost two weeks afterwards and all I could do was sit in bed and stare out the window. âTalking with no problemsâ my ass
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It took until I was in college to start getting the hang of the âhow are you/Iâm fine, how are youâ call and response. There was an exchange student from Turkey who recognized that I was having issues and he kept greeting me instead of writing me off as standoffish or rude. I still clearly remember the time I finally was able to remember to do it and we both stopped in shock and he was so excited for me. Even now, almost 20 years later, it doesnât come naturally but Iâm way better at anticipating and doing it so that I donât have the awkward delay.
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When you live with ADHD for 23 years, you learn coping mechanisms. Same with Autism. Every social interaction is a formula to me. I have gathered so much data from watching others that I deadass run math in my head to figure out if I am being too cold or too cheery. Of course I dont seem autistic, I'm high function and I have had now 27 years to tune my algorithms. I am normal if I try but holy shit is it exhausting
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Legit my fear of attempting to get a real diagnosis. I know I'm AuDHD, but I feel they'd just try to say stuff like this. Yes, I'm aware socially you should make eye contact, do this, do that. Doesn't change my crippling anxiety about certain interactions or my ability to hyperfixate for... looks at calendar Hm. This one's gone on for just about a year now. Nice.
... Did I eat yet? Oh yeah I got McD brekkie.
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@rubberchi
1 year ago
Literally got the "well you were making eye contact and carried on small talk well" dude I'm 27 I've had time to practice masking
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