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My ex narc BFF would go to counseling, but she would not tell the whole story. She was bullying me once to do something and I said NO. She did not take my NO, but kept at me. So I set a boundary and told her I wasn’t going to talk to her about that subject (her fav) any more. Well that made her furious and she must have told her counselor as she had to tell me a few weeks later how her counselor said that I was not a very good friend because I wouldn’t talk about those subjects with her. My friend added “you might want to think about that!” So IMHO she used counseling to validate herself, not for true healing and reality. What a waste of time truly.
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Intervention. Sure. You want to get them angry enough to completely destroy you? Go for it. It won’t do a bit of good. Even if they listen there will be no agreement, no admission, no accountability, no improvement. My narcissist preferred to lose half his retirement rather than lift a finger. His wine is his mistress
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Thank you for encouraging people not to leave. Everyone has their faults. Sometimes it’s just learning to accept them with their weaknesses and expecting less from them. God has given me friends and other family to make up for my husband’s weaknesses in our relationship. I pray for him and do my best (mostly) to love him.
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I appreciate this message. As a childhood trauma survivor, i can look.over my.life and see i had msny covert narc traits, but with therapy, someone willing to explain and encourage, i learned. I started to recognize and then could implement.
After years of being missed Dx with major depressive disorder but ever medication caused adverse side effects, he is finally seeing thst he was possibly misdx because NPD overlaps symptoms wise with MDD. Its been thru Adult Children of Addicts group meeting he is starting to see himself clearly and that is breaking him down enough for a break thru.
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I honestly believe there is always someone in the environment that reinforces his bad behavior that keeps him in denial and so we do not reparent them
With consequences. I am a behavior analyst and it’s like if everyone gets in the way it’s hard to change the behavior . All behaviors are aquired through conditioning. They aren’t going to change if they can’t see they have a problem and if anyone else validated them which they do then your the problem and you get to go
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I want to believe there is an answer. I wish I could see more examples of people changing. I do see it as a core wound of shame and connected to the overcompensating partner ( project everything onto a partner with an opposite shame wound) but then who and how do they escape the enablers? There are always enablers! And why would losing someone they could barely love be a reason enough to work on the relationship? It’s seems fhey would just get help and move on if they could change how they talk to peopel or learn people skills on what not to say but the internal breakthrough has to be there. Rhey have to genuinely feel bad for projecting and they have to know they are projecting in the first place. How the heck do we interrupt the denial?
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@SunkissedGoddess7359
3 months ago
Let them do it on their own, and don't wait around for it to happen.
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