@raymondowes4516

8 months ago

Naw Dawg, you double-talking now. You weren't talking like this in the Yellow Flag series. Are men trainable... yes... all humans are, but the issue is no one is training our women on what should be desirable, and what's not. So our women end up making suboptimal decisions in the middle of a 💩 storm.
Women can not be all women at once or 15 women at once. She can have 15 different looks, phases, or facades, but that person underneath all that is the same. I have regularly seen women swear they were one thing just to be in the "in crowd" only to end up somewhere completely different and happy with the outcome. All you have to do is pay attention to the signs. Thus a woman trying to be every woman is a master at not being a woman at all because she lacks consistency and possibly doesn't take life seriously.

I agree with the idea that women fall in love with who they want you to be. I have always been a man with my proverbial "sh*t together" and in my early 20s I would say women don't like me, they like the idea of me. That thought has evolved as I have gotten older (41 now). But I used to tell my younger soldiers (before I retired from the military) that young men and women get married for different reasons. Men get married thinking the baseline is established and nothing has to change. Why, because she accepts him at that point. Young women on the other hand feel like finally, he's ready to listen and change for me...

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