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As someone who was injured as a kid and been in a wheelchair for over 30yrs the hierarchy in the disability community is crazy... And the people who try and play the "my life sucks more"... I tried going to support meetings as an adult and I stopped after the second one. I already dislike the world, I don't need to hate it too lol
Keep on truckin my friend
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I'm an ambulatory wheelchair user with multiple disabilities that means I can't self propel. I was getting lectured by another wheelchair user with spina bifida for identifying as disabled that I'm not differently able not disabled š. The ableism is real to the point where some legally disabled people refuse to identify as disabled and shame other disabled people for identifying as disabled
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In the chronic pain groups that I've been a part of those that had bought into the toxic positivity were always at the top and anyone who wanted to talk about their problems were told that they needed to be more grateful that they were still alive to have problems.
I've also noticed that those in the Autism/ADHD groups who are able to mask or have very few outward symptoms are thought of as a success, however they don't know how to unmask and/or they need help dealing with emotional stuff, but because everyone is telling them that they are a success story they have a hard time asking for help or they don't even realize they could be so much happier with just a little help.
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I've noticed that totally or legally blind people skim over me because only my left eye is totally blind (removed due to glaucoma from a congenital condition), and my right is myopic and nystagmic, needing glasses. I'm a few magnifications and FOV degrees away from legally blind, but because I still have usable vision when my nystagmus isn't playing up, I'm seen as "not that blind". As though I'm not disabled while looking for groceries, or navigating public transport. I literally got on the wrong bus TODAY because I couldn't see the sign. But having somewhat usable vision for about three quarters of the daylight means I'm "not blind enough" to both abled and disabled folks.
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I also see a lot of people argue about who is and isn't disabled enough because they don't require a mobility aid every day or don't have a visible disability. my dad never wears pants in public because when he does, he gets screamed at for parking in a handicap spot. even when he points to the plaque and lifts up the pant leg to show his prosthetic, they still double down sometimes. when we would go inside and he got on one of the scooters, people kept giving him dirty looks like he was lazy. it still happens to him a lot, from people with all levels of abilities. the only place he doesn't worry about that kind of thing happening is cracker barrel. the elderly love a country boy amputee that served in the military, even when he specifies he didn't lose his leg and a toe from serving.
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Wow, I really can never believe people are like this, like I've met transphobic gay people, bi and pan phobic gay people, racist people of pretty much every major ethnicity and now ablist disabled people, why is it so hard for some people to just be decent? Literally just have a single ounce of empathy, it baffles me that people who have experienced so much hatred for something they can't change would turn around and do it to somebody else just like them š¢
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Also the fact that people will be really tough on disabled/injured people using anything to make their life easier, but give their friends a free pass. When I sprained my ankle I couldnāt walk up stairs, I had to crawl. The receptionist at my school wouldnāt let me use the elevators because I wasnāt āthat hurtā. I snuck on the elevator anyways because I wasnāt gonna crawl up the stairs. But she gave her favorite kid (who used to bully me) a free elevator pass for no reason.
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I became disabled in my late teens. If anything, I'm thankful for the years I had being able-bodied. I remember a girl I met waiting for some physio, she was young maybe 10, she got really excited when she heard me mention to my mum, "I just really miss dancing, that's so much waisted money on ballet and tap." She wanted to know everything I had ever done dance wise, because she loved dance. I realised this little girl was enchated by my stories of dancing, and she'd never be able to learn the very thing she absolutely adored, she said something like 'I like water because flouting is how I think ballet would feel.' Here I was 19 saying that something she'd have loved to; even do for a day, that I got to do for years was a waste. That moment impacted me a lot. I'm very sorry people in my position have treated you like that. How are people so narrow-minded to marginalise within already marginalised groups? Is it hard coming to terms with a new and harder way of life? Yes, but no disability beats another. I've had issues with people thinking im not disabled enough, but it's usually older white individuals who are self entitled over a disabled parking spot. I'm young and semi mobile in the can prop and take a few steps area. But having another disabled person acting that way would hurt so much more, I'm very sorry.
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Duuuude. Same for the blind community. I wish I could remember the name of this group but they do have a hierarchy depending on when you became blind, if you use sight dogs, if you have friends/partners who can see. They even have songs about how being blind is the only way to live. Itās a trip.
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@davenorth2903
3 months ago
āLetās just be nice to one another.ā No better words ever said. Solves most of the worldās problems.
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