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Genre: People & Blogs
Date of upload: Nov 20, 2023 ^^
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THANK YOU!! I lost my 16yr old Son in 2009 and I still havenāt really dealt with it. My mum, my best friend, passed 6 weeks ago and Iāve only cried twice, both times were a reaction to my Dad being upset. I internalised my grief so much after my son that the trauma caused fibromyalgia. 6 weeks after my mum I am really poorly with sinus, ear and chest infections. It seems I suffer with physical grief because my mind isnāt ready to deal with the reality just yet. Hearing you talk about this is so validating, so thank you xx
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Right. Disassociation is necessary when the emotional pain is too much to process in real-time. While that moment must have been overwhelming and scary, I'm glad you were able to give your body that release and I hope you're at an okay place (or at least more so in an okay place) with processing such a deep loss. Love the show, keep it up.
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Feeling this. To this day I still have to fight back tears when someone shares their stories with me because I grew up in a home where there was a recurring awkward silence. It just makes me simultaneously so happy and sad to be spoken to as an equal, with respect and dignity, by people who I might not even know, when my own family would never. Ten years ago I was terrified of having kids because I was afraid that I would treat them the way that I was treated, and now I'm afraid that I would talk to them too much and throw high-fives and scoop 'em up and give them piggybacks everywhere until they were emo teens, help them with their homework as my own desired hobby, tell them all I know about the world and people and... I understand how peoples' kids become their everything *and I understand why that is necessary.
*edit.
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my brain does this with everything at this point. i only just started feeling disappointed/frustrated about a missed opportunity from months ago last week. i was super excited about it, and through no fault of my own, it couldnāt happen anymore. i donāt want to say what it was, because it was some ridiculously small day long event, but it turns out iām actually quite sad to have missed out on it. i assume itās because of the years of constantly being let down by family and then systems that should have supported me that i just fail to process it at this point. iām not even 20. hereās hoping it goes up from here.
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I recently went home after graduating college and I was sitting at the table eating breakfast when tears just came flooding. My parents are both pretty emotionally avoidant so I guess my inner child just took of moment and let it go. Id never cried about it before nor really thought about how they had affected me
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@XenoTUF
7 months ago
You don't realize what repression does until you react totally inappropriately to an emotional situation
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