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My mother is the biggest attention seeking, narcissistic, and self-absorbed person I know. When my husband and I were getting married I gave each mom a hue of colors they could choose from for their dress. They each sent me a Pic and I approved the dress.
I get the the church and see my mother wearing a floor length gown in off white with gold beading. Everyone expected me to explode, but at that point she had been my mom for 25 years so I wasn't surprised. Instead, I chose to ignore her and this drove her nuts as she was looking forward to the drama she thought she was causing.
However, before anything could be said, Mother Nature took control of the situation. You see mom was going through menopause so her body was wonky. Well, an hour before the ceremony started Mother's body betrayed her, and she got her period and it was heavy! Without having to say much more I am sure you all can figure out the rest. She did have to leave the ceremony due to her needing to change. She made it back for the reception and was wearing the original dress she was supposed to wear. She sat at her table and didn't talk to many people that night. Ah, Mother Nature knows when to give one of her naughty children a smackdown.
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I did have a friend wear white to my wedding. A white skirt suit set. She's very stylish and from another country though, so I really wasn't bothered bc I knew her intentions were not to offend and I actually thought she looked nice.
I think someone did talk to her bc she showed up to the reception in a different outfit
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Regarding wearing white to a wedding, I do believe the intent it’s important here. If your only nice dress is white or cream with an accent in another color, you’re good. I’ve even heard don’t wear a pattern with a white background! I wore a dress to a friend’s wedding in college, where I was her guest book attendant. Since I wasn’t in the wedding party, but was part of the wedding, I wanted to match the theme without looking one one of the bridesmaids. So I wore a white dress with an all over print of light blue flowers. No one would mistake a dress like that for a wedding dress, which is why it was OK! TBH I don’t even call that “white,” because it’s an all over print.
I’ve heard countless stories of someone in the family showing up in a a white or cream ballgown, that would easily be a wedding dress, with the clear intention of upstaging the bride. Often someone who for whatever reason dislikes the bride or who has main character energy and can’t let anyone else shine.
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40 years ago my new husband and I were invited to his brother's wedding. My husband was in college and we were soooo poor. I only had one nice dress. It was plain cotton at the knee but white. I knew it wasn't cool but I wore it. BUT I did the only thing I knew to do. I put on a 3" red belt with red pumps. Nobody ever said anything but I've always thought about it. It was either that or miss their wedding. (Like us, they are still married too.) ❤
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I wore white to my cousin’s wedding. One, there were some serious gaps in my etiquette education so I had no clue it was a faux pas. Two, it was a business casual dress, so no way could I be mistaken for the bride. Nobody said anything though the did endlessly razz the groom for chewing gum at the altar, but I would not repeat that wardrobe choice.
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All I can say is I couldn't tell you what anyone was wearing at my wedding. I was there to marry the man of my dreams. I was on cloud 9, and I appreciate that people were there to share the moment with me... but the only one I was worried about was my husband to be... and he couldn't tell you what anyone else was wearing, either, because his eyes were on me the whole time. And 27+ years later, we still don't notice the clothes others are wearing (the personalities, yes, but not the clothes.)
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I got married in '17. I didn't wear white since it was a second marriage. Didn't even realize, I believe it was one of my cousins but not even sure, wore white. Didn't even notice until I was looking at photos years later 😂😂😂😂
It was not a very formal event and if anyone had poured wine on them I'd have been furi
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It’s funny how this particular etiquette is practiced so widely but other social etiquette is ignored or not known. I took it upon myself to take some instruction on-line with Anna Bey just so that I can feel completely comfortable at any social event. It was enlightening but most people don’t practice it anymore in society. I taught myself because my husband and I were invited to a lot of corporate functions and I didn’t want to embarrass myself by acting like I have no social graces. LOL! It has served me well. It’s not stuffy or snobby at all. In fact, the first lesson is that etiquette is used to make people that you are interacting with feel welcome and respected. It also taught me how to be a good guest. Things I never thought of like: Always bring a gift if there is a hostess. Most people give wine or flowers which is sweet! But what I learned is that if you are giving the hostess cut flowers, it is gracious to bring them already in a vase with water. I wondered why and the answer is so thoughtful! It is because she is busy answering the door, greeting guests, making cocktails. She doesn’t have time to stop what she is doing in order to find a case, cut the flowers, add water, and display them! Some people have the wrong idea about learning etiquette. It’s so charming and thoughtful! I love everything that I learned!!
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I wore black to one cousins wedding, and white (with a black ribbon) to another cousins wedding. This was in high school and I didn't think anything of it, they were just nice dresses from school dances I was reusing. No one said anything. Some people just don't know the etiquette. I did not know the etiquette. I learned over time. I didn't even know you weren't supposed to wear the "wedding colors" that the bridesmaids wear until last year. I literally wore them to be on theme. I guess with the internet being what it is now people just have higher expectations, idk. I know now white is a big no no but I didn't know that when I was a teenager 🤷🏼
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I'm honestly mystified why people care this much. I've seen so many stories about people having tantrums over white polka dots, white floral patterns, pastels because they're "white-adjacent", and even babies that are wearing white. Unless the person looks like they're wearing a wedding dress, I think this is an overreaction. There's nothing special about the color white, it's just the color Queen Victoria wore on her wedding day, that's it. Before that, wedding dresses were in all colors, and they were a normal article of clothing after that.
I don't own any white clothing because it looks terrible on me, I'm already colorless enough as it is. My wedding dress was a dark blue silk, and one of our close friends happened to wear the exact same color and almost the exact same style. Was I a little jealous that she looked so amazing? Yes. Did i have a tantrum or deliberately ruin her dress? No, of course not. I wasn't rude, I didn't snub her, I've never held it against her.
Unless the person is obviously trying to look like the bride, just let it go.
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I can't believe such a fuss over wearing white to a wedding. I was going to be married in the early 90's in 🇦🇺 and it never crossed my mind to worry about what anyone wore. Also, in my early 20's, I was invited to a wedding as a partner to my boyfriend. I wanted to make a special effort . I went to a small boutique. The saleswomen put me in a long-sleeve, high -neck, mid - calf length cream lace dress, which I wore with pale pink shoes and clutch. To throw red wine over someone's dress seems rather tacky and ridiculous. Fancy worrying about that, when you could be relaxing and celebrating the newly - wed couple. A white dress is nothing like a bridal gow
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@UnwiseOwl1453
3 weeks ago
Not me expecting a picture at the end of a dog wearing white again 😆
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