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Hit the nail on the head. Stop trying to impress others, impress yourself.
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Makes sense. I know someone who tried too hard to get respect. Got none outside of one thing he's truly good at.
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I always appreciate how willing you are to call your past or present self out. We have to look at ourselves! Call out the changes we need to make, then make them!
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This was such a good message. Thank you, Mark!
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This guy is an absolute goldmine...
He seems to know how humans work almost too well. I can't get away with anything anymore! No fair! π
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Only the new people you meet, the old ones wont change their minds because they already have set up their minds and people are stubborn like that.
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100% it takes a while for this to click, and still sometimes you have to go back and check yourself, when you start acting out of a need to fulfill some emptiness or sadness. These are the moments where self reflection is vital. Life is counter intuitive.
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YESSS, wonderfully said! I find often with people in my life, that those who often question why they're not more respected, repeatedly speak and act with low integrity that EVEN THEY THEMSELVES don't respect.
I get it, it's hard to see the negative or "less-than" things we do, and if we DO see them for what they are, it's hard to admit it AND change...much easier for some to blame others for not simply giving us respect because of our "position of authority" within our relationship dynamics (work, personal, romantic, parental, whatever). Much easier for some to not change. Well, I don't find that easier - to me that's a life filled with guilt, lies, and anxiety! No, thank you!
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One of the very few Best video I've ever watched in my life
Thank you for shifting my mentality to a new perspective β€β€ lots of gratitude
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Just do the right thing.
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Totally see that and also wonder how much of not being able to respect yourself (and thus not making decisions from a place of integrity to that βselfβ) stems from not knowing who you are yet (not that we ever fully know). I feel like the age mentioned here is a time when one is sifting through and balancing personal ideals, 2nd hand subconscious belief systems, and current realities . Which makes the part about making decisions from a place of integrity an impossibility as that self-actualizad target keeps shifting. π€·ββοΈ
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I'm spending my vacation at this beach, just got here, looked around and saw beautiful mountains my first thought was "you don't deserve this beauty you piece of shit" it's not people that I want to impress, it's myself, and I've been pretty disappointing.
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What does "self-respect" or "respecting oneself" actually look and feel like?
I can't tell if I have it or not.
I have a well-defined understanding of my level of self-esteem, self-worth, and self-confidence - but not my self-respect.
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Competence, humility and integrity
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This is the basis of coming of age rituals that removes this need and the man bec omes valued
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man this was one of the best videos I've ever seen
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To go a little deeper I'd say that society in general expect men to "be useful" or somewhat "contribute" to society (as opposed to women where these expectations are a lot less if at all). And as a result, when men grow up and 'figured' that, they don't have much skills to offer at first (say teens or early twenties) and so many opt for "low hanging fruits" such as trying to look cool, smoking, growing a goatie, buying a Mustang and burning tires on Friday nights, etc. As you mentioned, real personality pays off more, but it takes longer time.
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I wished I'd heard this many years ago!
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This guy is an incredible author
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@upsc3927
5 months ago
It almost feels like a blessing when you just listen to a short dropped by Sir Mark Manson that genuinely provides you clarity about overly complexified things. Thanks to you for sharing your opinions based on reality β€οΈ
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