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@CarlosVieria-u5y

3 months ago

They'll never apologize and try to convince you that their not guilty. It's almost unreal

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@IzabelaWaniek-i1x

4 months ago

Spot on dr Carter . Narcisists just have to have you in the down position and they wreak havoc and destruction to all of the relationships they are a part of. It’s gross. They don’t appreciate the people they meet and their insatiable selfish greed for praise, power and control blinds them to the benefits that respect, love, humility, gratitude, loyalty and mutuality bring to the table.

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@Hatbox948

4 months ago

Anger was the only real emotion my nex exhibited. Everything else was fake. If only people knew the real him. It wasn't pretty.

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@ItsMEJenniwashere

4 months ago

I get tired of being gaslit because I speak the truth. I can't even get basic context, because I'm the goat sent into the wild. Loose ends is a complete understatement.

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@BaraSchmidt

4 months ago

Life as a human presents with many challenges, and lessons to be learned.
WE deserve family, partners, friends, coworkers who act with reciprocity, empathy and accountability.
With an individual who has a narcissistic personality style there is none of that
Carrying 2 burdens in a relationship with them is a given.
As in "give them," no "give and take."
It's time to give your time and concern to all things Healthy!

Stay Healthy!!

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@caroleminke6116

3 months ago

There’s no such thing as a relationship with a narcissist 😉 it’s simply a dangerous scary situation until you grow up & leave it behin

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@juliewestover9774

4 months ago

Yes, it's like walking an emotional tightrope & not feeling safe to relax completely. The anger erupts out of nowhere... maybe it's always present, under the surface of pretending they're fine.

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@wishIwuzskiing

4 months ago

The anger, to me, almost seemed like an addiction, like there was a stimulation effect because there was a need to get angry over just about anything. This does make sense.

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@jacquelinefroehle3583

3 months ago

Thank you Dr. Carter. I agree...they need to stay angry. Nothing is ever good enough for them. Staying angry makes them continue to devalue the target scapegoat.

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@JackieFerrell-f6o

4 months ago

Thank-you, Dr. Carter. I had absolutely no idea that they needed their anger. I'm a sensitive person and I felt his anger 24/7. Not that he was raging all the time, but rather I could feel something that caused me to be anxious all the time. I think it was my fear that kept me on high alert because I never knew what my anxiety meant. Needing their anger is dangerous for anyone in a relationship with them.

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@kellishomaker8060

3 months ago

So true. I walk away examining myself. I must have…. Because they’re reacting in anger. Lots of self doubt.

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@alonzomosley7

4 months ago

I just got used to the weekly criticisms of what I had done wrong .The most minor flaw he would text me or come running over to attack me and tell me I was lucky to be here.The guy is totally fixated on finding mistakes I have made.

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@martinmartin9084

3 months ago

Yes, it is the dominating spirit.
The illusion of everlasting superiority.
And the moment you realise, this person is never going to see us as equals, you understand that they want you in that inferiority position they SO fear to be in.
Jesus why do they feel so small.

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@girlinterrupted9145

3 months ago

So true -if he goes too long without a good outburst , which he would typically try to provoke in another and then has an excuse to really lay into them , you can just feel it for days, ones coming on. The provocation starts and amps up the more you resist the urge to respond , and it gets to where any little exchange becomes a hunting ground for any excuse to let into someone .

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@GloriaGonzalez-zz4wp

4 months ago

🎉🎉🎉🎉 this is so true thank you so much

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@LibbyPomevy

3 months ago

They need anger to reduce pressure within them.

'Nuff said.

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@TheTerrylwg

3 months ago

One of the first things I noticed about dating my now husband was that he blamed me for EVERYTHING!!! The dumbest things!!! I had never experienced that before, and it definitely caught my attention because I knew I wasn't to blame for ANY of what he was saying. And then, STUPID ME, I married him anyway, and here we are almost 40 years later and I'm still being blamed. But, now, I tell him that all he does is BLAME-- me, and anyone else on the planet-- and that it makes him look like a spoiled child. It doesn't stop him, but I say it every time now anyway just to get it out there.

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@jamesbacon5690

4 months ago

My NPD ex wife would be angry the second I walked in the door. First it was I didn’t call her and tell her I was on my way home from work. Next day I called for going home and she got upset because I woke her up, and then she was mad when I got home. She had constant things to be angry at that I did, failed to do, should’ve done, should’ve known to done. It was too hard.

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@ErinJ-z1n

4 months ago

He couldn't lift a finger unless he was raging at me.

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@janepoppet3843

4 months ago

Projection. A lot of projection. Example, a person who might say say they're not going to allow toxic people to win anymore - when they're as toxic as hell. I found Dr C after I went no contact with my parent a few years ago. Except, it wasn't only my parent who led me to my recovery journey. I don't watch these videos as much now but pop in from time to time to keep me grounded when self doubt creeps in. Once you see it, you can't unsee it anymore. Another strategy I use now to overcome self doubt is imagining myself saying or doing to the other person what they say or do to me.

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