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The root of my avoidance is that I don't want to feel that negative feeling that I think I have associated with it.
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TRUE TO FOLLOW MINDFULLY 🎉
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Amen Sister
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This video is part of my avoidance tendency and actually inspired me to stop doom scrolling and address the problem I'm avoiding. You are a beautiful inspiration. This ostrich has his head out of the whole for now thanks to you're content.
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Sometimes avoidance is much better choice than confrontation and making your life way more complicated
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Forgot why I paid attention to Shade. I can so relate. It's amazing how old you can be and still indulge in this behaviour. One would think that an older person would be more mature/wise, etc. Glad that I listened to this.
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Shade the Way you present has Musical
Positive Effect listening to You.❤
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My dad seriously need this. He's avoiding things too much that almost making him look like a coward. He's super anti-drama 😅
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Thank you so much for this Ma'am. This really helps self awareness
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Thanks for your videos and the English subtitles 👍
Greetings from Barcelon
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Taking action is the best type of reaction. Great video.
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Always motivational :-)
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This is number one...
In life
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Very useful.thankyou❤
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Love your smiles ❤
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Great information
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ok, i agree, in most cases i do it, ie being proactive in solving problems, but less for myself more for other s businesses...
...too often they come to a point that can t be solved and too often they solve themselves, showing a waste of energy...
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Well Done…. Very Well Done
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Glad I watched this video. I actually was avoiding it😂. Very informative. Thank you ma'a
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@ShadeZahrai
4 months ago
There are a four common of forms of avoidance:
1. PHYSICAL AVOIDANCE - Avoiding obtaining potentially unpleasant information. E.g. avoiding booking a performance review because you fear feedback, or not checking your utility bills because you don’t want to see how much it is.
2. INATTENTION - You don’t pay proper attention to information because you want to avoid what it’s telling you, e.g. you don’t listen in your doctor’s appointment, or you don’t monitor your career goals because you believe you’ll fail anyway.
3. BIASED INTERPRETATION – You interpret information in a way that allows you to ignore the unpleasant implications, e.g. you avoid acknowledging that you’re in a toxic work culture by intentionally defending the poor behaviour.
4. FORGETTING - You conveniently ‘forget’ unpleasant information.
How can you avoid this bias?
Next time you suspect you might be channelling an Ostrich… ASK YOURSELF:
👉Is there additional information that could help me make a more informed decision?
👉 If so, am I pursuing this additional information, or avoiding it?
👉 If I’m avoiding it, why am I avoiding it?
Then, take ACTION - seek the information. Do the thing. Seek support if you need it, but commit to doing something.
Research:
Karlsson, N., Loewenstein, G., & Seppi, D. (2009). The ostrich effect: Selective attention to information. Journal of Risk and uncertainty, 38(2), 95-115.
Golman, R., Hagmann, D., & Loewenstein, G. (2017). Information avoidance. Journal of economic literature, 55(1), 96-1
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