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Absolutely 100% correct. Sadly it took me 40 years to figure this out and go no contact.
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True.
They don't wan't to see you like independent individual.
They like you miserable and dependent.
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You are pure gold, mr. Wise!
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Thanks for all your work Jerry.
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It's absolutely true.
They are simply emotional fly paper..
They must be into everything and know it all.
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Thank you so much for your videos! I’m 60 could never understand my mother. I will never understand why she acts the way she does but finally have the tools to keep my sanity ❤
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Narcissists see everything through the lens of "does this serve my purpose". This is why they have such a black and white view of things, there is no good and evil, no logical and illogical, only "serves my needs" and "doesn't serve my needs". Such a person cannot have humanity, because even a drop of it would result in care which would result in morals; or fairness which would result in logic. Without it, they view you as a doll. A toy to play with, to project a role onto. You wouldn't give rights to a doll, and you wouldn't take responsibility if you hurt it. A doll that doesn't play your games is a bad doll. Remember: you aren't even a slave, a slave is a person. You are a TOOL, a toy at best, but either way: a thing, not a person.
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Completely separate should you need anything from them. And nothing but an extension of their will should they want anything from you. Your problems (that they cause) are yours alone yet their wishes are your responsibility to fulfill.
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We're not a human being!
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My gosh, this is so true. I'm single and my stepmom and dad still think I "belong" to my dad bc I dont "belong" to a husband. Ffs I am 62 y.o.! 😮
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I found that its important to say, "Please dont internalize what's going on in my life . When you take on my pain or my experiences, you're letting others control your emotions. You are separate from everyone else in this world and protect your energy because Im protecting mine now, and I want healthy boundaries with everyone.
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By my mid-twenties, I thought that the abuse was best explained as a demand for a kind of single group identity extending from them, with seeing everything in absurdly oversimplified unconditional extremes, and there also appeared to be difficulty holding constant concepts of other people through state changes. This was useful for me because it made sense of the otherwise unpredictable screaming rage, the incoherent disjointed random accusations, and the patterns of arguing by spraying a jumbled mass of disconnected irrelevant lies.
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I lived with my parents till the day I married. On the day before my wedding, my dad asks me to Not marry. And if I wanted to have children, to go ahead and have them without marriage. And he said it with a fragile, and fainted voice.
I went on about my wedding. And in my wedding, he had his dark sunglasses on through the whole night. Being sad.
Little did i know, he was trying to be the center of attention with his sunglasses on. And of course, he was sitting close to the center table. And him asking me not to marry, it was just to keep me under his control like he had done my whole life.
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I believe this is because they have no sense of self and lack empathy
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My narcissistic stepmom wouldn’t accept that I’m not like her or everyone else in society. Well, I am different. But I feel different in a good way. I’m working to take back the freedom and power she once took away from me. She may have tried to take away my accommodations as a special needs individual, but my accommodations are what help me to express myself. I forgive her for the hurt she did to me. I’m going no contact with her, but I wish her all the best in life. I don’t want extremely terrible things to happen to her anymore, because bitterness is never a good feeling to have in your soul.
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I AM who GOD has made me to be. I only serve one GOD!
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All narcs are this way. They do not embrace individuality. Their superior mindset doesn't accept anyone who thinks on their own, has their own things they like and don't like. You are expected to accept and go with what the narc says you like. If they like something, you're expected to like it too, and not, you're the problem.
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God bless you Jerry. You changed my life. 🙏
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There are two distinct types of familial narcissism, unconscious and conscious. Jerry Wise is only addressing one kind here.
I suggest that the conscious narc abuser does understand you are a separate individual, but it is such an inconvenience to their control and domination of you that they just lazily ignore your sovereign rights in order to do what makes them feel best, at your great expense.
"You wouldnt even exist without me, you owe me your life."
My "mother" instilled existential guilt into me, by shaming me for having needs. She mentioned many times how I had interrupted her promising sports career, by being born. This creates shame and guilt, merely for having been born, a sense of being an unwanted burden, a feeling like you have perpetually done something wrong by continuing to exist. It goes even further, until you feel like you ARE wrong.
Merely giving birth doesnt make a woman a mother, actually being a mother does. Narcissistic "mothers" are only mothers in title, never in deed.
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Because they own you outright. They will also try to destroy you, if you are not compliant.
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