@peacesounds6942

9 months ago

In the west and among Christians, sex has lost its value. A woman’s virginity is no longer sacred. People meet, hookup, have one night stands and the next week, they break up. Sex and relationships have become a joke.

Orgy, 3somes, groupsex. I understand that you can do what you want if the people involved consent , but this is downright barbaric to me.

What’s extremely heartbreaking is when a child is born out of wedlock. In some cases, both parents decide to bring the child up. This is alright if the parents are doing a good job .However, there are also parents who don’t want the child as a result of which the child feels ‘unimportant’ ,‘worthless’ and ‘unwanted’. Some are given away to adoption centres, some are even grudgingly told that their conception was an ‘accident’….. It’s terribly sad.

Sex is a basic need and our sexual feelings are perfectly normal & natural. However, these feelings can also be the cause for our misery or someone else’s. True, there are people who have sex before marriage and their relationships are perfectly fine. However, this isn’t the case for everyone, which is why the our feelings must be curbed.

As for the answer to questions. Yes there are muslims that have sex outside of marriage. But it doesn't mean that the Quran teachings allows it. Having a boyfriend/girlfriend is not allowed in Islam, what makes you think that sex allowed then?

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