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The weaker parent supports the narc parent out of fear.
It's easier to throw the child under the bus.
They choose their own survival.
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I learned this the hard way.
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This has been a very large hurdle for me to jump over. Especially the wishing for and the grief. And it helps to know that none of it was my fault. Still isn’t.
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💢I learned this the harrd way when I was real young. It was traumatizing to say the least. They will side with each other till the end, and the target has to survive on their own‼
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I had to stop all communication with the enabler even when it used to be something they'd have helped. The abuse to me suited them. It became pointless to contact them.
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My father would just say nothing, it doesn't maintain peace, it destroys the family, but Im never going to allow that woman to abuse me anymore. I told them, theyre not parents, theyre people that had children.
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They also choose to marry the narcissist. It reminds them of their own childhood and makes them feel validated and complete and therefore whole.
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Dad was gone a lot due to coaching or at school. Sometimes I believe it was his way to detach from my narcissistic mom. 😢
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I've witnessed this first hand.
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i literally cannot brainstorm a single type of person more damaging than a narc. actual demons, willing
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My Dad (who passed 7 years ago) was very passive. I love him but it still hurts that he supported my narc mom.
Your videos are so helpful❤
Thank you 🙏 🫶
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My mother is an enabler. Her justification is that she’s protecting me from my father’s interpersonal extremisms or extremities. Thank you for helping and or providing us with your work Dr. Wise it keeps us/me sane and soothed.
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Thank you, I experienced this yesterday and now I have a greater understanding of my circumstances.
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Very, very true Jerry 😔
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Jerry is on target again, the "other'" parent will never stand up to the narcissistic parent or stand up for the abused child. My experience was that my weak father would sometimes join in on the abuse to gain favor with my narc mother. He was the weakest man I have ever encountered in my life. I often wonder if his weakness was one of the reasons she married him. I do recall her declaring that she got married because she was tired of being poor. My father worked for my grandfather who very successful. He made a good living. He later quit that job and struggled to make ends meet for the rest of his life. It's really difficult to be 7 years old and hear that, knowing that was no love in their relationship.
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So true! As an narc enabler parent, I experienced this first hand. It is out of fear. I went into a survival mode. It grieves me greatly, but it's easier to see it now because in survival mode, I felt like I was going to have a nervous breakdown because my brain couldn't rewriting the false narrative with all the excuses and justifications. I couldn't handle the truth, and I was always trying to do clean up. But my narc husband rocked the boat, tipped it, and destroyed it. :-( And I now understand that's what he will continue to do - destroy each of us - one at a time or mass. I'm in counseling now. The future is looking different. :-)
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This is the exact truth for me.
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💯
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❤❤ That's the truth, been there✅✅
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@pawelczubinski6413
2 weeks ago
my father used to say he just want to have peace. pretty selfish, didn't want peace for his kid.
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