@nicolasmoreno9442

10 months ago

I don't know any woman who was attracted to me because of my intelligence. They were into me in the first place or they were not, and then when they talked to me they eventually learn how smart I am and then their feelings grew, but it was never about how clever I was. How could they knew how smart I was when they approached me in the gym, or in the nightclub? They couldn't. They saw my height, my physique, my dancing skills, how well groomed I was, but no, women generally don't value intelligence, at least not as we may think it should. They can engage in meaningful conversations with thier father, a male friend, or a nerdy female schoolmate. That doesn't mean they feel attracted to any of them. Intelligence is most of the time a liability, not a bonus. It makes you less susceptible to bow to societal expectations, having a critical mind leads to making decisions on your grounds, not because everyone else does, etc... Which is scary to women because they want to belong to the peer group, anything that makes you different is difficult to understand, thus scary. Anything that makes you stand out is a complete no no, unless it has something of value behind, like being famous, which makes you stand out, but it signals other people have you in high regard, so they must have a point.. Then it is a magnet to them. But you can stand out because you don't care about football, small talk, and you don't watch Temptation Island... Then you can get labeled as a weirdo. Only women who are into you will not care about your oddities, and may later grow their feelings eventually, but then intelligence means very little... Please don't listen to anybody who says women love intelligent men, I greatly appreciate where it does come from, but it won't get you more women than walking a puppy in the park... No female will get wet by it, the women who then desire are into you despite the dog, not because. Intelligence is not different

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