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@mikejones9906

2 months ago

They’re impossible to spot until they reveal themselves, up to that point they could be your best friend.

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@tenningale

2 months ago

I hate how they trash people behind their backs and twist and gossip about all your personal information. Some of them are slick and you don't realize the depth of their internal pain at first (the whole "mask" dynamic).

Eventually, their passive aggression, victim complex, mockery, gaslighting, triangulating, exploitation, lack of accountability, blame game, lying, or mask slipping off (e.g., their shame, anger, insecurity boils over) reveals them.

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@Marcia-p8i

2 months ago

Thank you, Dr Carter.

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@IzabelaWaniek-i1x

2 months ago

Spot on. Entitlement, lack of gratitude, willingness to exploit others, secrets, dismissive comments, criticism disguised as concern, defensiveness, overwhelming need for control. Thank you 🙏 God bless you ❤

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@michelepascoe6068

2 months ago

They give you the cold shoulder or stonewall you, and expect you to know what it's about, without a word of explanation.

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@BaraSchmidt

2 months ago

Here's what I noticed in an individual who has a covert-narcissisric personality style:
1. Perpetual Victimhood - the robe, throne, scepter and crown 👑
2. Years in therapy with no forward progression. Time well wasted.
3. Extremely intrusive
4. Complete disregard of boundaries
5. Would say they would do something and would not follow through, leaving someone else holding the bag
6. No acknowledgement of others achievements - unless it served them or fed their ego
7. Would keep eyes closed (non-verbal blocking gesture) when anyone would confront them on their atrocious behavior. No accountability.

Add everything Dr C shared today, and then some!!

These are the ones you never see coming! Thanks Dr C for a very important spotlight on these individuals.

Stay Healthy!

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@teresadvorak6145

2 months ago

They always have to be so above U. If they feel U are getting out from beneath them, its a threat to their cushey ego!

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@nancytwigg4631

2 months ago

Thanks, Doc. I was lovebombed, devalued, discarded. 4 years of recovery from that covert crazy-making abuse. I will always be recovering and I so embrace that fact. I am soooo thankful for your video trainings. And I am grateful for that DISCARD. It freed me from his cycles of psychological abuse. His monkeys can keep flying.

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@DannyBurch-bo5mn

2 months ago

I saw a good comment the other day, you can love them or you can understand them, but you can't do both just spoke volumes to me.

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@tarotandtravels

2 months ago

Pathologically defensive almost seems like an understatement with their ability to turn any conversation into an attack on them!

If you do have valid questions or try to talk about anything they’ve said, they act like it’s actually YOU that was the problem and they’re the victim. I didn’t even know what DARVO was but I lived with it for years. I used to think it was serious psychosis causing them to be living in an alternate reality but the further away I get from it, the more I think they were aware of their manipulation the entire time. 😑

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@JackieFerrell-f6o

2 months ago

Thank-you, Dr. Carter. I recognize these traits. Lying by omission, lack of loyalty towards you, and constantly blaming others I dealt with many times over. I actually was blamed for the 2008-2009 recession. Unbelievable.

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@SabrinaMarieCastro

2 months ago

My mother is a covert narcissist. I was really lost. I don't know my emotions, I don't know myself and I don't even know that I exist. It was so terrible, so terrifying, so worrisome, so confusing, so exhausting, so draining, heaviness inside and downright painfully lonely.

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@nolanat504

2 months ago

What an amazing explanation alot of people don't realize how different a covert narc is and may think in fact that they aren't a narc, they are just a covert, which imo is worse. At least with most other narcs you have a better idea of what you're dealing with.

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@reedera4

2 months ago

Yep, that describes my deceased husband to a "T." It took me a long time to figure out that the problem was him, not me.

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@shwetadeepak9431

2 days ago

My mother checks a lot of the boxes in the covert narcissistic category. I finally confronted her with all the abuse she has done & how much it has affected me. I never expressed it before because I was always labelled as dramatic or sensitive. She actually accepted & took responsibility but then went into a guilt & shame spiral, and now has started therapy. Does the fact that she accepted her part in my abuse mean that she is not a narcissist? Now she can’t stop crying & ranting about how bad she feels, how she has hurt me, that she is the worst mother.. Somehow it just makes me feel worse..

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@Eduardohaztealgo

1 month ago

Wow, venía a escuchar el típico video de "falta de empatía, trato silenciosos..." pero esto es mucho más sutil y se habla mucho menos de ello. Impresionante amigo.

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@jademcgood4314

2 months ago

Thank u for these I'm so sad right now because of my ex 2 years of him doing this to me

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@tom-b4x6r

1 month ago

5*GOLD!!!

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@ZinaWarrior

2 months ago

That reminds me of five elders I know . Thank You

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@lorinapetranova2607

2 months ago

So concise it helped me end a friendship some years ago. I rarely felt comfortable or safe around the person. With the star list of reasons to walk away it's a lot easier to say... Time for a strict diet n I don't mean food. Thank you for being on our various journeys. Many blessings y'all of a nurturing nature. 😊

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