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one of my best friends stayed in a group chat with my ex who abused me for months. she was the first one i told about the abuse. when i saw she was still in the group chat and talking with them, i was extremely upset because she constantly said that she didnât want to talk to him anymore. i felt stabbed in the back. i told her that i didnât feel comfortable with that and it was ultimately her decision if she stayed or not but that it really hurt me to see that. she left and apologized but i realized after that, that real friends donât do that to each other. she had done a lot of other weird things and so i ended our friendship.
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I do have a tendency to be overprotective. I'm working on it finally, since I realized I'm very codependent. Took longer than I had hoped.
Oddly enough whenever my friends stay friends with people I don't have a good history with, they eventually get treated poorly by the same person or cut contact with them for some other reason. (It happens the other way around too. It comes full circle, life's weird like that.
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Iâve got a story:
I was friends with a woman for 13 years⌠sheâs was an N.S. (Never Single) and I a P.S. (Perpetually Single).
She ends up getting married (for not very good reasons. Not terrible, just not the greatest reasons).
I was the shoulder to cry on and the ear to rant into. Little did I know, that was my one and only purpose. Sometimes I was also the peacekeeper/mediator.
I started getting real serious about dating (girl was looking for a hubby); she picks a fight about how I was a bad friend and never did anything for her. I called her out on the bs, we made up, all was well.
I meet my now husband, was still in pre-bf/gf territory⌠homegirl went OFF on me. Accused me of being an awful excuse of a human being, insulted me, my boyfriend and his friends (they hadnât even met) and ended her tirade with a aggressive and sarcastic âhope you get your fairytale endingâ. She was so angry that I was no longer her sad-single-friend. I wasnât even a friend, I was her service dog and me finding a meaningful relationship with other person was me abandoning post đ
Summer 2024 will mark four years that I have last spoke to her
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Seems like youâre invalidating how your friend feels in an attempt to gaslight her. She said he ârejectedâ her and youâre changing it to âyou werenât a matchâ to attempt to lessen the severity of it to make yourself seem like youâre not doing anything wrong by still being all buddy buddy with this guy. I am personally big on bows before bros and if Iâm trying to build a solid friendship with a girl I wouldnât keep being all buddy buddy with a guy who hurt my homegirlsâ feelings. To each their own though :)
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@jakobthealien
8 months ago
When I ended my 8 year abusive relationship, my family and friends befriended her and kept her in their lives. Even then it wasnât really my right to tell anyone to cut her out, but it effectively demonstrated their lack of safety for me as an individual. Naturally, none of those humans are in my life anymore. I will not be loyal to my abuser, nor do I want relationships with others who are.
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