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She’s probably lived in that room her entire life! At least tell her about it beforehand!! She may be an adult now, but she’s still a human with emotions!
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Communication is so important! If you had talked to her through this, even though she might’ve been upset, she would’ve been fine. I’m positive finding out when you come home for break that major renovation was done to your room is the reason for the hurt feelings.
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Yup! You ARE TA!
My daughter hasn’t slept in her bedroom of my apartment for over 3 years, but I won’t change anything about her room in case she ever needs a place to stay.
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"We can let her sleep on the couch for as long as she wants" is wild 😭
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Yes op is the AH. They couldve asked, told her or done it later when she was ready. She just left home its an emotional time like jeez. Insensitive parents😂
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I mean it's their house but they could have at least told her.
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Either there were other signs you wanted her to move out or she will get over it quick and it's just a passing mood.
I would have at least offered her things from the room before demolishing it. Like 'hey, you need your old bed? Is there anything of sentimental value we should save for you? We are gonna make sure to get a futon in the living room love you bye!'
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"Sleep on the couch for as long as she wants....." 🙄 Wow,now that makes one feel special ,esp after obliterating her room. YES the AH, should have at least let her know
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It's their house, yes, but communication would go a long way here. I'd also like to point out that the odds of her daughter not breaking up with her bf are much smaller than the odds that she will. I think op did the remodeling a bit prematurely, and not even giving the daughter a heads up was pretty inconsiderate.
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Yes the AH, but mostly for not discussing it with her beforehand. She is only 18.....
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I think, given the fact that you gave her no warning, it might look like that. I mean when I moved out, my dad had repainted my room and it kind of felt weird, but he at least waited until I got all my stuff out to completely change it. It was still a little weird because that was my room for 18 years and he didn’t give me any warning, but I mean I don’t live there anymore. There is definitely fault on both ends here.
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It's their house, and they don't HAVE to tell her anything
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TA. More than likely the relationship will fail. I can understand if she was married. When the relationship doesn’t work out she will feel like a burden when coming home. This will more than likely make her stay in a relationship longer than necessary.
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Its the parents house and they can do with it as they pleae. However, i agree that they should have given a heads up to the daughter. Maybe even let her help with some decision making for the reno and decorating. Make her feel like a part of it instead of an outsider. I mean, i would imagine this was something they probably started thinking about before she moved out. What else are they not telling her?
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101 how to be an inconsiderate parent & make your child feel unwanted. What if the bf ended up being abusive? What if they got evicted & needed somewhere to stay? As a parent, you’re not a parent until your child turns 18, you’re a parent for life & they should feel comfortable turning to you for comfort by any means
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NTA their grown daughter moved out. Her parents need to live their lives. They don't need permission to remodel their house that they paid for.
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I love the jar🥰🥰🥰 so pre
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I get it's the parents house and they should have been able to do what they want with their home. She did move out with boyfriend as an adult so they figured she was being an adult and living on her own. However I can say the daughter can't expect for her parents to keep her room available for the rest of her life. But the parents should have talked to her about it. They should have told her their plans! They both suck here
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NTA. I've said this once and say it again... Your house your rules! The adult daughter needs to grow up.
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@ResinateByChanel
6 months ago
I've said this once and I'll say it again..... Just because you have the right to do something doesn't mean that you're not an AH for doing it...... The parents had every right to renovate the room but a nice person would have at least told their daughter so that she wasn't completely blindsided when she came back to visit..... Communication is key!!
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