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I was reminded of an xkcd comic that kinda adds to this, panel 1: a person reviewing a manās work āyou are bad at scienceā panel 2: a person reviewing a womanās work āwomen are bad at scienceā
Itās as if anyone outside the normal for a task has to represent everyone that are not the normal in that way
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yup. Pretty much in every workplace. I could never talk to my boss the way the men do. To another woman in my workplace, she is more assertive and he tells her about her "tone." He did not like when she asked if he would have said that to a man.
I got similar treatment when I stood up for myself. I am not assertive, but I stand up for myself. I asked him if he would have responded that way to "insert male coworkers name." He did not like that. He keeps claiming he doesn't have bias...but well....
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Believe it or not, I'm sitting here tearing up. I feel seen. As an older business woman, just trying to work hard, but still facing that insurmountable barrier of perception against us, there is very often absolutely nothing we can do to earn respect.
We conquered so much in the '70s and '80s and '90s, and some of that understanding started to solidify in the 2000s. But something shifted around 10 years ago and I saw the young people being taught against equality. Now we're going backwards in so many ways. Even some men I've met who say the right things, in the end show that they don't really mean it, they're just being politically correct when they have to be, but in their minds they still see us as weak and foolish and absolutely inferior.
But this, what you've said here and how you've said it, I believe you. And I feel a sense of value and worth that I haven't felt in a long time.
Thank you. Just, thank you.
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All women have to deal with this, Mike.
When someone calls a woman a B, it is code for, "You are not being convenient to me right now, and I am frustrated."
It's not nice, but every time I have been called that, it served as my validation that I was standing for myself and not getting run over. I was doing the right thing for me, looking out for my own best interests.
You speak as if this should trouble a woman?
Gotta tell you: If someone would call me that, then I surely don't care what they think of me, anyway.
All this said, I do appreciate your astute observations and compassion. I think your internet presence does a lot to dispel the myth that "lawyers are bad people". I have only needed a lawyer 2x in my life, but in both instances they were good and honorable people, and were a blessing to me.
From watching your content, seeing your POV's and what you choose to share, I'm quite certain that you are a blessing to those who you choose to represent, as well. Keep up the great work. š
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Female lawyer here...people ask to speak to my dad all the time because clearly it isn't my name on the building. I barely know who my dad is.
They also ask when the attorney will be coming in after signing documents for 30 minutes and me saying "Hello I'm Tiffany Webber and I'll be your attorney today."
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@awells444
1 week ago
As the son of a female lawyer, thank you for saying this.
P.S. I saw her in the 90s having to thread the needle.
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