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I haven't approached a woman in nearly 15 years. I just don't think that'd go well with the wife. 😄
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All these doomer comments. I made my first cold approach two weeks ago in the gym. Had seen this girl for a while and wasn’t too sure on whether she liked me back but I really liked her. Spoke to her gave her a compliment, introduced myself. She made the conversation feel easy because I was extremely nervous and it calmed me down. She said she was in a rush and I asked for her number before I went. She declined and said she was in a relationship but she was so nice about it all that it’s only made me want to do it more.
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The less you care, the better it goes
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I went on tinder very briefly... What a true hellscape. Let me describe 99% of the women i saw on there:
Lip filler
Caked makeup
Tattoos
Botox
Single mother of 2-3 but every photo is either a bikini, gym, nightclub
Everry description was some version of that terrible phrase 'if you cant handle me at my worst ... Blah blah blah'
All 'looking for long term' but all with photos of the tits out etc
Im in my early forties man, literally all of that is the opposite of what i want. Not the kids, i mean thats a given when you are this age, but the rest... No thanks. My ex was a true narcisist, completely unhinged... Why would i want another one of those?
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Last two dates they were way too modern. One seriously got mad because i opened the door for her then she said didn't like Christmas.
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Is that because it’s the more eligible half doing the asking? Not difficult to imagine that if it were 100% of men, the rate of opportunity conversion would drop precipitously.
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The West is in a seriously bad state rn romantically
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Love is a game that you have to pay to play. You have to risk the hurt of rejection(many times over) and bad relationships until you develop skills to form and maintain good relationships. You don’t get better by opting out. Now your inexperience is just going to carry into your later life where the consequences will be more dramatic. It’s best to put yourself out there while you are young.
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The more attractive you are, the more positive feedback you get from women. The more positive feedback you get from women the more likely you are to be confident enough to approach. The men who are more likely to get rejected don’t even ask because they know what the answer is.
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I dont think the problem is an approach problem, a lot if single women that I have met have a real victomhood problem. While they may have reasons for that, as I had reasons for it when I saw myself as a victim, The problem is that having a victim mindet comes with excuses, mental issues and a self centered mindset. It is super negative and hard to deal with because it becomes an entire world view afte r a while. I've been in relationships where I've attempted to help them face their life problems, overcome them and grow and almost all of them left me for someone else when they started doing better. So Im not here to help these women if they are just going to leave me high and dry. Thats why I rarely find myself on dates or in relationships these days, you can see the signs before you even ask them on a date. Victomhood is everywhere, not just in women, and its easily one of my least favourite personality traits.
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The problem is not dates, the problem is the awfull quality of women on dating apps, i have plenty of dates with women, but i always see the same low quality traits, narcisism,egocentrism,entitlement etc etc, got tired of treating 33+ women as teenagers
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its not about getting a response from a woman. a woman is always happy for you to take her on a date and pay. its about the long term, men are still getting screwed in divorce court.
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I am 43 years old, have been married for 14 years and have never approached a woman. Let them do it. It's never sexual harassment when they want you but if they don't it is. You know what clears that up if they pick who they want and go after him because you know who doesn't get offended when people like them? Men.
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Whats wrong with solitude?
Why are you so hell bent on people making decisions you dont approve of?
Same thing with not having children. So what? Thats their choice to make.
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No. They've gotten a foodie call.
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Risk is not worth it .
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On different occasions in the past year or so, I tried my luck and asked two women on a date, and both rejected me😂. I'm 0 for 2, so the odds aren't looking great thus far. I definitely wish I had a 50+% success rate right about now😆.
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Why would I want to approach women? Too much of a headache and too much risk. I enjoy not playing mind games, not being falsely accused of things, not wasting my time and money chasing, and not getting divorced and losing half of everything I worked my whole life for. I also don't need another person to fulfill me. I'm good by myself.
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I don’t know about that dude. I’ve approached 100’s of women and only gotten a handful out on a date. Even less translated to a relationship. I don’t think those stats are indicative of the larger population.
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@DirtnapJack
1 week ago
Ah, the old “just have a little more confidence”.
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