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Cassandra Syndrome: He Said, “You and the Therapist Gave Me Autism.”
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@LisaTyrell-q7z

1 week ago

just found you never heard of this but oh my i need you in my life right now 😢

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@terraverlage6834

2 days ago

Yes….. This is another good video Diana. My ex husband also has a very serious “behavioural addiction”. Yes, it is an actual addiction and it’s called a screen addiction or compulsive use of screens. My young adult son is still struggling with this as well… Based on the beginning of your video, he talks like an addict talks….Saying those things because they’re deeply immersed in their addiction & all of the cognitive distortions that come along with it.. You caused me to drink …you turned me into an alcoholic… you gave me Aspergers… Diana…. you are already aware that You’re dealing with a very serious double whammy here. Please be Careful❗️ You’re lovely and you deserve the best - please please please be careful❗️❗️ Mark Hutton described in the Cassandra syndrome, zoom support group a while ago the absolute truth, when he said that our minds will eventually make our bodies very sick. When we briefly lived in Colorado, for five years, I had specialists ( Immunologist, colorectal, surgeon, thyroid, surgeon, etc. ) yanking major organs out of me, and those specialists all agreed that it was due to prolonged stress & the organs, literally shut down. I thought I was coming back home to Canada in a box… Please, please please Diana be careful.❗️

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@PantherNomad

1 week ago

I see low needs often by people.

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@martinapfaar7902

2 weeks ago

I just always remind him he is awesome and redirect him very gently into the right direction. I tell him what a good woman needs. I also emphasize his needs and that Isee him. If he lashes out and hides I know it’s not about me. He apologizes. He is afraid I am leaving him or take over his life.that’s why he runs. But it’s getting better. I told him he is not looking for peace but contentment. And having a partner means both sides give. I even have to tell him what he needs to do. Like a practical step. “ Hold my Hand when you are ready it helps me connecting with you!, If you give me kind words I understand your love to me. If they do something for you it’s saying :” I love you”. I tell him what he did well. So he learns what makes the relationship better. Mostly they feel shame and feeling smothered. So I let him come to me and show him through food, kind words, paying something for him. Let him talk about his favorite soccerteam. If I show him I am angry he leaves. So I do it with positive reinforcement. I can also demand in a non threatening way. And when his whole life is too much, let him be, tell him, I love you and when you are ready you know where I am. I see you and I love the real you. And I go and do my own stuff. It’s hard but this way it’s harmonious. Sometimes I give him an update. Just want to say I miss you and love you, all is well! It works so much better. Cassandra syndrome! Oh yes! We are in LDR it makes it harder. But he is trying or I would say quality is better. He is loving me. That’s for sure. If he would be always disrespectful? No I could not do it. But our love outweighs, Hoping to close our gap by next year. I will have a room ready for him to do whatever he wants. Alone together sometimes.But close. I hope it will work out. I like my own space too. I need to recharge too. So it will not to be a big issue. But right now the distance plus plus is killing me!😢

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@martinapfaar7902

2 weeks ago

ASD, Autism Spectrum Disorder Level 1; autistic = on the spectrum; neurodivergent = broader terms for autism, adhd, dyslexia, etc

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@amandaraymond2667

2 weeks ago

Ha, I thought my guy was the only one to accuse me of giving him autism. That is too funny. Giant revelations.
Ok enough of that now, Dianna I am gutted that you are in this position now of having to go back. That teenage attitude is so annoying and I don’t know how after 9 years almost, that it always takes me by surprise.
Your hair looks fabulous by the way.
I have no answers. I have decided to laugh as often as I can with my guy and it is helping coupled with the needed attention I am giving to my spiritual health too.

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@martinapfaar7902

2 weeks ago

Teenage attitude yeah I see that too! How long are you both together and did you stay in the same house together for a while to see how he is doing when you invade his space? You know even if he has Asperger’s do you think that changes his behavior! He has Asperger’s if he knows or not.We have to deal with the consequences. In my case I understood and stayed when nobody in his life ever did! Almost 4 years. It took me a long time to understand he is audhd too. And I guess avoidance through trauma. It only changed my understanding of having more affection for him when I realized he is on the spectrum . I have gotten nicer and more patient towards him.

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@lavender5624

1 week ago

High functioning is generally called low support needs now, but being autistic myself, I don't really mind being called high functioning or asperger's, especially by people who grew up with that terminology. good on you for trying to remember the more polite word for it. I'm not really sure where your partner is coming from by saying that you gave him autism..? Does he know, specifically, what you need from him? Have you been talking a lot about needing to get out of this apartment, or has he only recently found out? If this is a more recent problem, I know I started acting out when we thought about leaving the apartment we're in, because the idea of being in a whole new space was really distressing. If he recently got diagnosed, and he knows his living situation will change soon if you're moving back in, there's a lot going on for him right now that might be stressing him out, or even giving him the impression of himself that he's exhibiting MORE symptoms of autism than he was before. I don't really know a lot about your specific situation. It sounds stressful, and it's not only your job to put in effort. You've said in recent videos that he can't help a lot of the things he does, and that's true to a point. I have comorbid narcissistic traits as well that are in remission, and come from a place of having to advocate for myself aggressively to my family to get them to believe I was struggling, especially when I didn't know how to put it in a way they understood. I needed my partner to accept that sometimes I had to take time away from her to be angry or sad, so I wasn't directing it at her. He seems to struggle with understanding his feelings more than I do, so I don't completely get it, but if he tries I'm sure there's a compromise you can come to. My partner wanted to help and make the emotional pain go away every time it happened, but by that point I'd been in another serious relationship, and knew letting my partner do what felt good would lead to that side of me pulling even harder and becoming more controlling, so it wasn't a comfort I could let myself accept. I hurt my ex girlfriend a lot emotionally. I'm not saying you should give him the cold shoulder if he's not ready to process that, but try to get him to understand what behaviors hurt you and what behaviors he does that you think might hurt him too. If he loves you, and he loves what you bring to his life, it would be in his best interest to open up a little about what frustrates him, and be vulnerable when what frustrates him is actually his own behavior. Cassandra syndrome can make you feel like, if you don't feel like anyone else understands you, you must understand yourself really well, when that's not always the case. I didn't understand myself very well at all when I felt the most like the people around me weren't trying to understand me.

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@er6730

2 weeks ago

I think it's low needs, high needs now.

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@JanGroh

2 weeks ago

I've been told to call it lower-support needs or better masked and passing autism. Yes, a mouthful. Also, I'm hearing a lot of signs of emotional immaturity in your partner, but of course I'm not there, not a doctor or counselor. Nor yours etc.

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