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I’m a man, and I worked in childcare and as a babysitter for awhile. Some people were great, but there were definitely people who would not hire me or looked down on me because of my gender and field of work. Some of them just straight up treated me like a predator. I loved working with kids, and I know I was good at my jobs, but between that and the pay, it wasn’t a good long-term plan for me. People just get sooo weird about men doing “women’s work” even when they’re the man’s own children…
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Hey Erin. Wanted to say thank you so much for everything that you post and all the help you provide. Thanks to you I was able to get a job interview in an NGO that I wanted to work in. Also I passed the interview to the next stage of the recruitment process. All your videos have been of amazing help. Much Much love ❤
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I've felt so bad for the young men who've felt left out dude to the state of our economy yet still having that patriarchal pressure to provide and be tough. I always say, most of us girlies just wanted a PARTNER, someone who can contribute equally to everything, whether it be child care or financially. I know everyone's situation is different, so nobody's a bad guy for taking on childcare is the Mrs. has a higher salary, and that salary doesn't make her any less of a woman. I simply feel like all the alpha male patriarchy bs has got so many guys (and girls) lost in the sauce and I just want them to know that there are still safe spaces where things can be reasoned out with a potential partner 🤗 Don't let society get you down, just be grateful to be alive and well then we can go from ther
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In my experience, it definitely depends on where you work. Some larger corporations are actually pretty good with allowing men to do more of the childcare. They have more robust family leave options.
However, at the end of the day, it really depends on who your boss is. I've heard of women in leadership that hate men taking pat leave (one suggested firing a new dad! You can probably guess the company). When a mom is working 60+ hours a week, everyone on her team, including any other moms, have to be working that much. When a dad is ok with never seeing his kids, same goes for all the dads on the team. That's how it goes.
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I mean, I kind of get what she's trying to say but it sounds like she still missed the point. Men not being in caring roles is an effect of patriarchy. And women have been trying for decades to dismantle patriarchy but we can't do the work for men. Men need to step up themselves among their own peers and induce change. But unfortunately, what seems to be happening instead is men trying to force women to solve problems that men created! Just like with the "male loneliness crisis" - literally have "experts" saying that women just need to date/marry men so they're not lonely. WTF? How is it women's fault that men don't know how to make and keep real friends??!! Fix your own sh!t, we're not your mommy!
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@Dragonmoon1598
2 months ago
Seriously, this is why I don't understand people who freak out when kids play with dolls.
I'm not saying it would make a world of difference, but at the same time, more men may be less apprehensive about taking on a more caretaker role later in life.
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