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This was partly why I had my first 2 so close in age 😂 I knew I wanted to homeschool since I got pregnant with my first, and I wanted my kids to be close friends. (Of course, now I have 4 and I realize age closeness has nothing to do with relational closeness), but it did work out the way I had hoped! My daughters are 4 and 6 and they tell me that they are best friends. ❤
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OK. I’m 100% for homeschooling, but I will have to say, because of the way it was done, we were very socially confused. We always tried to steal friends from the next younger sibling. There are 5 of us, from 27 to 35. Only 2 of us have been in a relationship. I got married to mine this year, after being friends for over 18 years. I never went on any dates until 29. I wasn’t asked out by anyone until I was 24. My sibling that dated was in a relationship for 2 weeks in their late 20s. But I will say my husband is 4 years younger than me. We met at a church event as kids and I was technically introduced to him by my little sisters and ended up stealing their friend. There are worse things than finally dating and marrying at 35. 🤷🏻♀️🤣 He was abused by students and a teacher so we’re on the same page. What I would do differently, when God grants me children, is really involve them with the young people from church, more than my parents did
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What kind of stupid logic is this? As a child, I hung out with my siblings during summer, on the weekend, vacations, and after school, literally more of the time than I was at school. This doesn't even make any sense, since school is a way for a child to make more friends instead of only being able to have their siblings as their friends.
The question is why do you think children need to be with their siblings ALL the time? Kids who go to school see their siblings a lot, yes they will make friends that are their own age, but to me that doesn't really matter in how close the kids will be. It's all about spending time together as a family, establishing supportive bonds, and creating a comfortable environment. It doesn't have to involve homeschooling at all.
Also, what are the "many ways to have your children spend time with people their age" besides school? I'd genuinely like to know. Because if you're talking about extracurricular classes, I've never made a strong bond with anybody in those when I was a child. Especially because it ends up being that you see them for a few months, and then they're gone. The only thing I can maybe think of is sports teams, but what if your kids aren't into sports?
There are ways to put a child into spaces where they will be around children their age besides school, but to me there aren't many opportunities to put kids in a place where they will see each other regularly besides school. And it's difficult to make a bond with somebody if you don't see them often.
Also - there's just so many ways that this thinking is problematic. Like, if a child is the oldest sibling and they rarely spend time with people their own age, what if they now feel intimidated by them?
This thinking just makes 0 sense to me.
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@Gavincaslengoswife
2 months ago
I mean yeah… but now they are separated from other kids… they need to learn how to socialize with people other than you and their siblings
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