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People aren't wrong for being attracted to what they are attracted to. I'd definitely date trans IF she was very feminine. I'm not into masculine men or women. I like effeminate men and feminine women. I wouldn't let myself be bullied into dating someone I'm not attracted to. And that doesn't make you exclusionary. You can't control what you find attractive.
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Who you want to date is up to you, misgendering her by calling her “a man in a dress” is the problem. Don’t do that
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as a trans / non-binary person, nta for not wanting to date her. i completely understand that.
i don't typically date people with a weiner- perhaps it's because of trauma, perhaps it's because of some other preference. either way, it is still valid that i do not prefer people with a weiner.
it is valid that you do not prefer masculine people.
what is not valid is calling her a "man in a dress" because she 'doesn't pass well enough' for your idea of a trans person.
i'm not very passing (ftm). i'm short, i'm built like a legit hourglass (i even have the 'perfect ratio' +2) i have long hair, i have i high pitched voice, i don't bind... am i any less who i identify as? no.
it doesn't change who i am.
the fact that she was masculine does not change the fact she is a woman. i would personally air on the side of caution (i've had people lie about their gender orientation so i'd be attracted to them or smth idk), but still use her preferred pronouns.
tldr;
nta for not wanting to date her, yta for misgendering her.
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NTA. Get what you want. People just don't get it. LET them try it. See how THAT works out.😅
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YTA for misgendering.
It doesn't matter that she appeared to be "a man in a dress" to you, you should have just told your friend you weren't into trans women or prefer afab(assigned female at birth) women.
Edit -
And to answer your caption question:
I am panromantic, so I don't tend to date only people who match my "preferences". There are certain features I like better about people, but it all comes down to personality first for me. I suppose that is the one preference I will not compromise on. I really can't date someone with a gross personality.
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Ok so NTA for not liking the person but it’s messed up to still use the wrong pronouns. Being who you are means that if you feel feminine you don’t have to change everything about you to be feminine. Same if you feel masculine. If you want to then go ahead. I get wanting someone born female as a partner but maybe try explaining that to your friend instead of getting upset at them for a misunderstanding?
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As a black lesbian babygirl you did nothing wrong and don’t let anyone push you into dating or being sexual with anyone who you are not naturally attracted too.
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Guilting someone into being in a romantic relationship with someone negates consent. OP did nothing wrong. Trans women are women, and there are no buts about that. This isn't debating that. OP is attracted to femininity, which this blind date didn't attempt. I don't love OP's rhetoric, but her point remains.
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Its one thing to simply not feel attracted but to deny their identity makes u in the wrong for it and being transphobic like u have no say over how someone else identifies and how u think a woman should look
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WHY ARE THEY USING HE/HIM PRONOUNS FOR A WOMAN????? THATS MESSED UP
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sexuality has nothing to do with how the other person feels, it is about looks. you aren’t wrong for not wanting to date a trans woman and your friend is wrong for calling you transphobic.
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NTA. Just because you weren't attracted doesn't mean you're phobic. It could have happened with ANYONE - sometimes people just don't "click".
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YTA
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It seems like the OP is attempting to clarify what she saw & why she was not attracted. Y'all may want to do research on post surgery realities. It's highly problematic, high cost continuing chemical therapy on top of other things.. All modern surgeries should be researched (ie not via memes) - there's entire shows dedicated to terrible plastic surgery & that is only literally skin deep. #educate #flameon
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Sort of makes me wonder if it was a set up, just sayin.
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Dislike👎
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@huntingorgon44
6 months ago
Yes YTA, not for not wanting to date a trans woman, but for purposefully misgendering her.
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