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You're absolutely correct... It's been 35 yrs and I'm physically ill from it today... I'm afraid to leave at this age because he took the best years of my life... I no longer have the same opportunities.... š¢
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I completely understand. I am 34 years in but began the process of separating myself and our things. I cannot do this anymore.
22 | 1
This happened to me in my twenties. I considered myself a strong person but my first serious relationship, I lost myself and self esteem.
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Thank you for all you do Dr Hawkins. I wish I could have you as a therapist ā¤
8 | 1
We learn this from our Mother's..... spill a glass of milk at 3 years old and my Mother would slap me scream ... about the cost of milk and send me to my room... The next day could be my Birthday and Mom would make me a cake .... and she would tell me she loved me.... Why are we all not schizophrenic .... is a mystery.... This was love .... anger, curses, slaps, spankings, shaming, guilt... The next day presents and a Birthday cake????? That is love??? I was 3 years old and could tell this was a lie ....
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I think one of the most complex situations is when you have two narcissists married that are in a trauma bond relationship. That one is wild!!! I'm the mom and i'm walking away moving away three hours so they can sort this all out and I can heal. Covert + malignant is a nasty situation.
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When you donāt understand itās a spiritual problem and lack understanding that the patterns of behavior are Narcissism, the opposite of love, you know somethingās not right and by the time you figure it out itās hard to break free when they control the finances to keep you trapped but I divorced him anyway after 22 years and Iām so glad I did, I live alone but itās peaceful and Iām not living a lie! Thank you Jesus for meeting all my needs!š
22 | 1
Like a powerful addiction
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Intermittent reinforcement is intentional because the abuser is exercising coercive control over the victim mentally as well as emotionally in order to maintain power. Period. No love ever. Nada. Good luck trying to tell this to a codependent whoās trauma bonded to a narcissist. Save your words for yourself & ask why youāre trying to fix someone else
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I used to be so grateful to be understood if after my divorce, anyone said to me, " Oh my or wow, that took alot of self esteem " What people dont understand is that its from my youth. If narcisistic men just wanted to play games? "Fine kleenex men". I'll mentally flip the switch, about whom using whom for sex. Female liberatiĆ³n. "Okay sex slave, come serve me". Im done with the games people play, especially men, and as a result, happily celibate as of about twelve years ago. I think that its just natural at the age that i became so, being single again.
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So true. Itās been over for ages but he is still pursuing and stalking me. And my head is extremely against him being present, itās not possible for health. Yet my heart for some reason STILL cares even though I donāt want it to. And you know the saddest thing of all? He genuinely has been the best relationship yet! Itās baffling how bad it is out there
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Or waiting for the kids to become adults. Then she bails. Thatās what I did. I stayed for the kids. Not sure if that was helpful, but it is what ut is. Thereās always this hope that he will do better, so you stay for them, but at some point you realize he doesnāt care and you leave and donāt look back. 4 years out and I have so much peace and happiness. Never going back.
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They donāt know much different is out there and if they suspect it.. they donāt think itās their fate to have
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I feel like the term ātrauma bondā confuses alot of people as to what it actually means. I feel like āCognitive dissonanceā is a more directly describes what the trauma bond thst happens in a toxic/abusive relationship. Thats just my opinion though. What do you think?
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Absolutely correct. Thank you Sir. šš»
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Trauma bond also originated from the patterns in early childhood when we were emotionally and physically abused, with severe beatings and threats from parents and older siblings, and we could NOT leave. We were trapped as children. We received love crumbs, and since we didnāt know any better, we internalized as normal. We believe we are trapped now. Thatās why some donāt leave. The spouse at some point love-bombed us. We desperately want that love back, That was the only love that ever felt real to us, so we lose ourselves and our lives in order to recover the illusion of that lost love, which we will never receive again. In the end, all we want is to feel loved, and that person (the abuser) is the only one that for a brief season showed us love. Thatās why we hear of all those love scams. Women in the developed world are used and not loved due to their husbandās intentional cruelty or their own brokenness.
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It's not just the ladies that stay though believe me I'm guilty of staying when I shouldn't but that's because of my complex PTSD and alot of different issues that I struggle with every day I've been waiting almost 2 years to get a therapist to see me on the NHS and I've been dealing with my complex PTSD since I was 5 but no-one listened so I dealt with it alone
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āCost of livingā how ironic
3 | 0
Mine was 11 years .Iām out 10 months and have truly been happier than ever. Yet, today I saw a neighbor I had with my ex. I know my ex has moved on to someone new. I wanted my former neighbor to say something fond about me and he did ā¦in that..oh we loved you but I still feel so victimized and abandoned by it all and by people I knew who said they were my friends. Why should I feel anything! God has me so totally and I know itā¦yet I feel discarded because I did not measure up to the narcs needs and requirements. Iām a daughter of the most high God..yet people here can make me believe I am disposable. That I may hold dear that my Lord called me and knows me by name.
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3 months ago
I wish the courts would catch up & educate themselves about this
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