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This secure response does not stop people from thinking youāre too needy, especially when you voice need for consistency.
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I recently heard a creator say "dont let an unhealthy or toxic connection/person have you under the falsehood that you have an anxious attachment style" and that someone elses behavior shouldnt qualify your own. I wished I could give credit it was an aha moment for me. We have to look at ourselves and our attachments independent of trauma responses and abuse.
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Eyebrow blindness š¤
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Is this a clip from a longer video? If so, which? Where? I want to see the whole thing. My relationship of 1 year ended over me bringing this up. Didnāt even request consistency. All I requested was decency. the decency of a response. And preferably a courteous response, with some level of bedside manner if they perceive the thing that theyāre saying to be less than preferable for the receiver to hear.
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Thank you doll. That's true.
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Ah thank you because O just told someone that it's not about expectations because we are in talking stage but it's about basic respect. He wanted to talk all day and I understand when it's busy etc but today he left on vacation and I wished him fun. All good but for some reason I started.to feel stressed and ignored. I don't expect a prompt reply I'm a patient person but in this case it went from a lot of texts and wanting to meet in a rush before his trip to no response. I felt: it would take little effort to text " talk soon, j will be back in 2 weeks, see you soon".
It's the context and I started to feel like it will cost me my energy especially since I'm not a multi dater.
So ai tpld him we have different values and wished him well.
I felt hurt. I denied myself many times and would hold my breath, express and they would repeat the same unpredictable behavior.
He told me he had been ghosted by women who just stopped talking and it looks like he is doing exactly that to me.
Deleted his nr and bye.
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Men and women have been roaming earth together for a long time. Now we need people to explain how to relate to each other coz we can no longer functionally relate to each other. The bigger picture is the broken picture.
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I did these things!!
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you donāt have to tell someone to text you back or text you when they get a minute to explain why they didnāt text you back. Thatās a waste of time and completely ridiculous. You donāt want someone whoās not courteous enough to offer an explanation or text you back just run away from these peopleā¦thatās secure
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This is exactly right. I am a SA, and my FA Iām dating, weāre having that discussion on consistency. And I am looking for the needle to move. She is a wonderful person, but pulls away when everything is going extremely well. Iāve lost a lot of money on her last minute cancellations. Hoping to work through this with her. But I *am watching. ā¤
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When you see that there isn't a change use language to navigate the issue if the dialog comes up. I used to say "it's tricky"and nothing more...don't overthink
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The second one was a bit hard because my empathy to some extent held me back from complaining and knew my partner was a bit sensitive. But after a long time of push and pull I eventually did address it because I only can have so much sanity and it hashed out well even if they ended up pulling away for another day when I called it out. Its so frustrating but Im very glad its been over a year since and I finally am able to get my needs met.
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When you honor the commitment to yourself and move on, when someone disregards what you have asked for, your a B. Why would I disrespect myself? I won't ever.
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I will dump a person. I learned that a right man over texts all day. If I have to tell someone then that person is just not my type. Without a strong passion only for me and a strong attraction i do not desire that man.
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I must be avoidant because if this happens early on I just write that person off as not for me š
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Tyreese i love you baby girl, but someone's gotta tell you... you got the eyebrow blindness.
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I have this issue with my daughter..š¤
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1. Delete her/ his number. Minimise the damage. Save your energy.
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I have a great deal of respect for you and your content. Nevertheless, I find your eyebrows to be quite distracting and not in line with the level of professionalism that is expected. This makes it challenging for me to fully engage with your content. I would suggest considering applying some concealer to tone it down until you are able to make adjustments. It appears as if you have drawn them on with a sharpie.
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@LyrixNChill
1 month ago
To be securely attached you must be securely detached enough to walk away with minor damage
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