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Writer: Chloe Avenasa
Editor: Isadora Ho
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Amanda Silvera (youtube.com/amandasilvera )
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Top Comments of this video!! :3
This is me I feel like, always needing people approval itâs really exhausting đ˘
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I feel this way but with me it's to avoid confrontation as I grew up being afraid of aggressive people and always having to be the perfect child.
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I always was a people pleaser and never knew why I was so controlling when it came to projects or stuff I know I'm good at. This helped me figure out why, thank you
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Bro im a whole red flag...
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I don't want to be a people pleaser, but sometimes its just easier to avoid conflict.... I hate arguing with people, because I'm too emotionally and physically exhausted for that crap...
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Not like needing people's approval...but just needing not to be always alone anymore
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Delayed socialization can also be a factor.
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I definitely used to be a people pleaser. However I decided to stop because it often led to people trying to take advantage of that aspect of myself
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We need to like ourselves first.
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Thank you for bringing out this show. This show is a timeless masterpiece, one hell of an adventure. The creators of the show knew EXACTLY how to hook it's viewers to the show. The show is quite slow in the beginning, but I swear, it will break and absolutely shatter your heart, and in the end, it will leave you heartbroken, and you'll be crying like a bitch.
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Yes... so I keep away from people.
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For the End- If youâve Dealt With Narcissistic Abuse in the Past, these are the Signs.
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I'm definitely a people pleaser. I always want validation and I can rise and fall on the basis of how people treat me. But I'm certainly not controlling. On the contrary, it is me who has been controlled my whole life and I hate it. I think thousand times before giving anyone any advice since I don't want to come off as patronizing, I understand how it feels.
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I always LOVED this quote, itâs beautiful and itâs probably one of the lines in that show that stuck with me more than any other.
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I definitely used to be this person; chasing people who I thought were good friends for validation, had a need to control things because I felt helpless, and so on. I wonât say theyâre all completely gone (I definitely still has some desire for control), but I have certainly worked on myself, and well⌠to quote BoJack Horseman,
âIt gets easier. But you gotta do it every day, thatâs the hard part. But it does get easier.â
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I, myself, am a people pleaser. I am very aware of it but it feels too out of my reach to stop it. Though, I donât resonate with the controlling aspect mentioned. Rather, I let other people control me. For instance: when I was 11-12 I sent pictures of my body because I was pressured to. Iâm still friends with the person that pressures me. Itâs rlly hard to get through socially and I wish I could help it.
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Everything inside me is a red flag, my mental health, my high anxiety, the way I act around people, the constant feeling of being unwanted, knowing the people in the surroundings agree. Spending hours on YouTube trying to find something meaningful and cute to relate or cry to, Keeping everything and I mean EVERYTHING to myself, knowing none of my family would support it, my stability, my instincts, my personality, myself, everything.
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I feel hurt by videos like this. They make me feel like i'll never "be done working on myself". Like i'll never be enough.
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I've been burning that flag lately, feels great!
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@Psych2go
1 year ago
Did you watch our last video? What did you think of it?
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