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I read a thing on grief that helped me through it. It went something along the lines of if you really loved the whole of a person you never really stop loving them, and grief is just love with nowhere to go. You just grow accustomed to your life not involving/revolving around them. Find new friends, confidants, connections, to share your experiences and feelings with.
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Legit that’s wild man you hit that one right on the note. My ex broke up with me and that woman was the love of my life took me a year to get outta that headspace an depression that was awesome bro legit had to comment to say that. An if anyone is dealing with heartbreak don’t rush it give it time. Have good night everyone stay awesome! 🤘
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It’s just as the old adage I used to be told “If you don’t miss the one you loved then you never loved at all”. That shit is what kept me going during one of the hardest times of my life at the end of last year. Grief is part of the human experience and things like breakups and loss happen, it’s destined to happen, it just about not letting those things make you lose yourself or your path to being the best version of yourself
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some more post-breakup advise is that, while you may always love the memory of who a person was to you, you may come to find you no longer love who they are now, and that's ok. just cherish those memories and let them make you better in the next relationship (this is a lesson I learned after my ex and I ended our relationship, after many years of self reflection)
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I've been bitter and grieving about my recent break up and this short helped me let go. As soon as I let myself reminisce about the good times, reflect on the "bad" (in terms of what could be better and improved on) and let myself feel hurt and let myself forgive my ex, letting go of all the resentment and how I was forcing myself to hate my ex, I could feel a huge weight come off my chest. Grief hurts and it takes time to heal, but make sure you're not holding onto that hurt and the hurt from people for too long, it's okay to let go, you're not losing them. For people who are in the same position as me, take some time out of today and just let yourself think about your past relationship without attaching any negative emotions from afterwards, just think about how things felt during those memories, then let them remain happy memories of the past.
I feel much better now and I think I'll care for myself better with this huge weight off my mind and body.
This will probably be buried under everybody else's break up stories and probably make no sense later (half asleep lmao), but thank you Thor for all of this free life advice and helping people out. You've touched so many lives you couldn't even know and more. I hope you keep doing what you're doing and inspiring the people who's paths will inevitably cross with yours
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This came at a really good time. my best friend of two years just cut things off and its really hard to move on. I was really into her but she was in a relationship and I think all that jealousy and anxiety bled into my actions which caused her to leave. I realize that at the end of the day, I cant really blame her because blaming someone you’ll never interact with again doesn’t help you move on.
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if you force yourself to forget, you never have truly moved on.
Moving on isn't about never thinking about it again or it never having any effect on you again, it's about accepting, accepting that it's over, even if it hurts. What has happened, happened, you can't change that but what you can do is keep going and learn from your mistakes, because you still have a lot to live. Through pain and through bliss, life keeps going.
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@brawler8839
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It is also ok to miss the person they were, while not wanting anything to do with the person they became.
Edit: For the people saying people dont change, you just get to know their true selves better, i respectfully call bullshit. People absolutely change. In fact its one of the things we do most. Some people change more than others, but everyone does it. The me of today is different than the me of one year ago, and the me of five years ago is practically unrecognizable to my current self and while i think ive turned out better for it, i know many who haven't. I said it in one of my comments but i know someone who went through some deeply traumatic events that changed a lot of their core personality traits to the point they were basically just a different person. Humans are always changing, some of us get to pick how and some wake up one day and realize they aren't who they used to be, but nobody gets to stay the same. Thats kinda what makes humanity so beautiful to me, our ability to change.
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